"Are We Ready To Handle Truth?"

Pentecost

Sermon Preached By Rev. Richard E. Stetler - June 8, 2003

Psalm 104:24-34; John 16:4b-15

     Without fully realizing how our lives are shaped, each of us can become the authority over what works for us. When we stay with our interpretation of life, frequently our story line does not change. Many of us remember, for example, how quickly Moses manufactured excuses  illustrating why he was not finding much joy in what God was asking him to do. (Exodus 3:11f).  His comfort levels were being threatened. He knew what he wanted, and it had nothing to do with going into Egypt and facing a ruthless ruler.   

     Sometimes an unexpected experience is necessary to "shock" us into seeing another reality or to face a new direction for our lives.  Most of us are not prepared to change our story line until we experience something that requires it. 

     Many years ago a woman came to see me.  She was feeling lonely and abandoned by her husband.  He was involved in two softball leagues and was seldom home during many summer evenings.  During the winter months, he became involved with indoor tennis and bowling.  I had a chat with the husband and he consented to leave one of his softball teams so he could be home with his family.  Was the problem solved?  Absolutely not.  We seldom solve a problem by treating  the symptoms.  

     Susan called me again.  She said, "He's home, but now he's reading, or sitting in his recliner wearing earphones or working in our garage.  He's here but he's not here if you catch my drift.  I don't know how I can break through to him; this family needs him." 

     The couple came to my office and I  listened.  When I had heard enough, I offered a number of radical recommendations.  I said, "Jim, I want you in the kitchen preparing supper on Tuesdays and Thursdays."  Susan immediately snapped back, "Not in my kitchen!  He's a klutz.  Turning him lose in the kitchen would be a disaster. He does not know where anything belongs. I'll be weeks cleaning up after him."   

     I chose to ignore her remarks for the moment.  "On Mondays and Fridays," I continued, "I want you to bathe the children and get them ready for bed."  She started laughing.  "He will destroy the bathroom, get the kids worked up with his foolishness and he will fail at getting them settled. Firmness is not one of his strong suits." 

     Notice who had become the authority in the home.  With total confidence Susan knew how best to manage the family. She could not understand why I was sending Jim into her territory.  Jim went there nevertheless.  Susan was absolutely correct in predicting the outcome; Jim was a disaster.  

     While frying chicken one night, Jim had remembered a technique his mother used.  He dipped the pieces into scrambled eggs, tossed them into a brown bag filled with flour and bread crumbs and shook it. The mixture filtered through the bag's seams and went everywhere.  When the frying had been completed, there was not a surface that was not covered with spattered grease. Jim loved what he made!  He absolutely loved it.  He got into this.  He got the cookbooks out for the next meal! 

     Susan had become the "expert" at efficiently managing the household leaving no room for her husband to participate in the family. He had gone into the world of softball because there he was valued and appreciated for his skills as a batter and a short stop. Without realizing it, Susan had been sending Jim a message that he was not needed and could not possibly fit into her management style.  Rather than teaching him, she had been screening him from the process. It took several shocking experiences before the two of them got their marriage growing again.  

     When our familiar story line governs the direction of our lives, how does "the truth" break through the barriers we have unwittingly created?  If we can do this in our marriages, think of what can happen to our relationship with God.  Often it takes a unique experience for us to look in the mirror at who we have become. 

     As we turn back to our lesson, we learn that Jesus was preparing his disciples for a major shock.  A day would come when he would not be with them.  The disciples had grown too dependent on him for their identity.  They were his disciples. He told them, "I am telling you the truth:  it is better for you that I go away, because if I do not, the Helper will not come to you." (vrs. 7)   

     Who is this Helper?  Was Jesus referencing an external source of rejuvenating energy that would become a part of them? Would God's Spirit enter their bodies enabling them to become different beings, giving them powers they did not before possess?  What was Jesus preparing them to experience? 

     Recently I performed a wedding ceremony where one of the bridesmaids was a pilot.  During a moment when the two of us were alone, I asked her what her most frightening experience had been while flying.  She smiled and said, "Without question it was my first solo flight.  I was very confident while my instructor was seated next to me. When I found myself alone in the cockpit for the first time, every fear and "what if" flooded my mind.  I had to learn that I could fly the aircraft without the calm, reassuring presence of my instructor.  I did it!  What a rush!"   

     Again, Jesus said, "I am telling you the truth:  it is better for you that I go away, because if I do not, the Helper will not come to you."  Could it be that Jesus was setting up his disciples for trusting God to lead them, to empower them, to give them insights and to move them beyond self-interest and into a ministry where their lives would influence the world?  

     Today we find a number of people who want to experience spiritual ecstasy more than to facing the challenges associated with the inner and outer work of discipleship.  We can search for some unexplainable, mystical experience or we can look upon life as did the young pilot -- learning to fly without the master pilot's physical presence.  Jesus had given his disciples the contents of the Sermon on the Mount but it was up to them to use it.  The Pentecost experience gave them that push to get out into the world.   

     This past week I was in a meeting where one of our lay persons said, "I do not think anyone should join our church without also assuming responsibility for contributing their time and talents to help with our growing mission to each other, our community and the world."

     Our committee discussed his thought.  Everyone is very busy.  This is not the same social climate we experienced 50 years ago when the church was the center of family life.  Scores of activities are in competition for our time.  Most of us tend to fit the church in where and when it is convenient.        

     People become empowered when they get busy.  Elijah found God's presence only when he left the security of his cave and went back into ministry.  There was no spiritual ecstasy.  Moses only found that God was with him when he went into Egypt and confronted Pharaoh.  There was no spiritual ecstasy. When the Holy Spirit filled Jesus, again, there was no ecstasy.  In fact, he had to enter the wilderness to reassess his identity. All of them had to move beyond their known story line and trust that God would lead them.  

     We need to remember that we do exactly what we want to do with our lives until we run into a wall.  That is what Susan and Jim were doing in their marriage. That is what Elijah and Moses were doing before an experience sent them in another direction.  Jesus had to wander for a period of time.   

     Some of us are not prepared to handle truth because we enjoy the control we have over our lives.   We do not like taking risks with our time and financial resources. We come well armed with every excuse in the book. Then during some sleepless night, we wonder why the Holy Spirit has not shown up in our lives.