"Behind Our Masks, Are We Just Children?" Sermon Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – July 3, 2011 Centenary United Ecclesiastes 1:1-11; Matthew 11:16-19, 25-30
There was a time when Jesus was relaxing with his disciples and
he asked them, “To what can I compare to the people living today?”
He compared his neighbors to children playing in the marketplace.
Like many children, they all had different ideas about what they
wanted to do. One group tried to
engage in various activities and the others didn’t feel like
participating. They said, “We played music at a wedding and none of you
wanted to dance.” They made
another claim. “We sang
funeral songs at your gathering and you did not feel like grieving.”
Jesus was saying that children’s values,
goals and pursuits are as numerous as there are children.
No matter what was suggested, there were always others around
that were looking for or wanting something different.
If they were unhappy, they spent their time looking for the
faults in others. He gave his listeners one more illustration that
focused his analogies on responses to the ministry of John the Baptist
and his own.
Jesus pointed out that when John preached
along the
Years ago, I came across an interesting
description of a diplomat – “A diplomat is a person who has the skill to
cut a pie in such a way that each person believes he or she is getting
the largest piece.” Very few
people have that skill. Even
Jesus did not possess that ability. Wherever Jesus traveled, among his
listeners were curiosity-seekers and religious authorities that were
listening with the purpose of gathering evidence to use against him.
There were also those described as
outcasts.
Among this latter group were the tax collectors, beggars, the
poor and prostitutes that were looking for words that might give them
hope.
We preachers like to fantasize that
people can hardly wait to come to church each Sunday morning so they can
hear what we have to say.
Actually, we recognize
what Jesus noticed two thousand years ago.
People’s minds wander all over
the landscape of human life
even when they attend church for a specific purpose.
Like children, many of us lack the skill of giving someone
our undivided attention even when we really want to hear their thoughts.
There are too many distractions.
Pastors have the greatest place in the
world to see what is going on in the pews.
We are no stranger to asking ourselves the question, “Does anyone
really care what I have to say this morning?”
Sometimes we can hear heavy breathing, a frequent sign that
someone has gone to sleep.
We watch as women reach over and squeeze their husband’s leg to awaken
them. There are times when
cell phones go off during a service.
While preaching, I once watched a woman dig through an endless
inventory of articles in her purse before she got to that mute button.
In my former church, we had
scribble cards in the pews for
children. There were times
when teenagers and adults used them to write notes to each other.
From time to time, one of our faithful ushers would bring me
several of these notes that were priceless.
Here are some examples that Dottie gave
me, “When we finally get out of here, is your Mom taking us to
McDonalds?” Here is another
one, “Stop texting. People
will see you. Remember we are in church!”
A third one said, “I can’t remember if I turned off the iron when
we came to church. Do you
know?” The answer: “Yes, you
unplugged it.” One final one,
“Seven women have brought bottled water into the sanctuary. What’s with
you women and water?”
During another worship service, one of
our women sketched plans for wrought iron hand-railings that people
could hold on to while negotiating the steps into the chancel.
She also designed a hand-railing that various lay readers could
use when they came into the pulpit to read the Scripture lessons each
Sunday. I turned her
sketches over to the Trustees and her designs were used for the
installation of those hand-railings.
Who knows, she may be a wiz at multi-tasking.
This past week a number of us were
watching the streets in front of the Parliament building in
Because they were not getting their way,
these children were throwing a temper tantrum by breaking windows,
shattering sidewalks, chipping granite off buildings and throwing
stones. They were rebelling against being weaned from
the breast of former
parliamentary decisions that had granted them access to the
pipeline of low interest rates
and unlimited borrowing power.
Now it was time to repay and austerity measures were becoming the
law. Jesus had it right.
When we study the behavior of each other, we really are
like children.
Occasionally, we come across parents who
are absolutely worn out by trying
to corral their children.
We watch as many of their efforts produce little change in their
off-spring’s behavior, and we tell them, “Just wait, in time, they do
grow up.” Well, at least we hope so.
While he was talking, Jesus provided his listeners with words that should give us children hope. He said, “God’s wisdom, however, is shown to be true by its results.” What happens to children as they are growing up is that sooner or later they learn that what separates the levels of success between people is the results produced by their decisions.
This also accurately describes the process of what happens to us when we
pursue the development of our skills of spirit.
This is what Jesus called “God’s Wisdom.”
What happens way too frequently is that millions upon millions of
people go through life in total ignorance of what God offers people who
ask, seek and knock.
Today, people have far more control over
their lives and have neglected their partnership with God.
They become like people who move into a house for the first time,
having come from a third world
country. They do not
know anyone but they now have a roof over their heads and they feel
secure.
They begin their lives with kerosene
lamps; they warm themselves in the winter by a wood-burning stove and
they cool themselves in the summer by opening their windows.
They lived this way for years because they were completely
unaware, when they moved in, that their home came equipped with
electricity, a furnace and a central air-conditioner.
A
lot of people confuse their spiritual development with life as defined
by institutional religion.
Jesus was talking about the results from
God’s Wisdom. What is
God’s
Wisdom?
Jesus said, “Above all else,
learn about the
Remember, God provides every thing for the birds but God does not throw
birdseed into their nests.
They have to educate themselves and learn the skills of survival in this
world. What happens to
people who have only a minimal understanding of God’s existence?
This past week
The Royal Gazette featured an
editorial by a woman that almost drowned at
She continued describing her drama, “I
reached the young boy but at the age of 56 and also a heavy smoker, I
was in trouble after two minutes of struggling.
I could not signal to those on shore because the police were
distracted by troublemakers.
I realized that we did not have a chance but suddenly, ‘like a miracle,’
the sea grew calm for a period.
Instead of waves crashing over us and carrying us further away
from shore, a calm swell pushed us toward the shore and thank God
we got out alive.”
She ended her editorial, “I have never
been a religious sort of person, but the following day, I went to church
and thanked God for saving us.”
Maybe this incident was the beginning of a relationship with God
with whom she had no prior experience.
God uses every opportunity
to communicate to us, but if we remain as distracted children, we may
not perceive the guidance, the cues and the opening doors.
A very good friend of mine called me last
week from the States to tell me of a recent experience.
Each day he drives to an area where he exercises by spending time
walking around a lake. After
his allotted time was ended, he found that his car key had fallen out of
his pocket somewhere along the way. He alerted others that were
exercising on the same path to look out for his car key as he began
searching.
His anxieties were rising and then he
asked for help from the divine energy that surrounds all of us.
Some of us call this loving, supportive energy God, Jesus or the
Holy Spirit. Others call out to certain saints, spirit guides
or guardian angels.
He made one more loop and found
his key lying in a patch of crab grass well off the trail he was on.
It was a small miracle that his eyes saw it.
It was like finding a needle in a haystack.
I asked, “Did you thank your angels for their assistance?”
He hesitated and said, “Yes, when I got into my car, I shared my
gratitude with all listeners on the other side.”
At the end of our lesson Jesus says, “Come
to me, all of you who are tired and carrying heavy loads and I will
give you rest. Take my yoke
and put it on you. You will
learn from me because I am humble and gentle in spirit.
The yoke I will give you is easy to wear and the load I will put
on you is actually lighter than anything you can imagine.”
Could it be that scores of people are alone in their dealing with life’s most pressing issues and problems until they ask ? Many of us children are like the family that moved into the house and knew nothing about electricity. As long as children decide to stay as children in their spiritual development, the results of their lives will remain on that level. Ignorance always produces immobility and limits the size of our universe. When we want to control our destiny by ourselves often we cannot see the numerous possibilities that exist.
Jesus, said, “Ask and you shall receive.
Seek and you shall find.
Knock and the door will be opened to you.” (Luke 11:9f)
When people stay connected to
the Vine, they have been able
to move mountains and cast them
into the sea. When we ask for
help or move toward a seemingly impossible task in our love and
compassion for other people, an entirely different energy pattern opens
up in our minds. We become
empowered to face whatever is in front of us.
By asking, we open ourselves to another dimension of reality that was there all the time. Jesus understood that we are all merely children playing in God’s marketplace . Sooner or later we will learn that nothing else works to enhance our spiritual growth but God’s Wisdom. Why wait for a crisis when we can use that power right now and everyday in all of our tomorrows? Just ask and remain open to whatever happens. |