"Wisdom Always Offers
Guidance" Sermon Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – June 19, 2011 Centenary United Psalm 8;
Proverbs 3:1-18
Among my favorite books of the Bible are those that deal with the
Wisdom literature. It is
within this scriptural grouping that the Book of Proverbs belongs.
The reason I enjoy the wisdom found in the Scriptures is because
its words paint a much
different picture of humankind from the countless themes that bombard us
with descriptions suggesting that we are wretched, fallen and sinful
creatures. The Church’s message
has continued with this more dominant theme since the beginning of its
existence. We know all too
well that we stumble, we miss the mark and we do not always make the
best decisions, but there are scores of noble qualities that we have
which are seldom celebrated.
Wisdom literature captures those qualities.
Sometimes we may think that God missed
the mark when the creation of the physical world included humanity.
I can assure you that such is not
the case. God knew exactly what
he was doing and he knows precisely who each one of us is.
What
is both frightening and reassuring is that God knows the inner workings
of our minds but still continues to love us.
From the mind of God
we have these words that were channeled through the writer of Genesis, “God
created human beings, making them like himself.
He created them male and female.
God said, ‘Have many children and bring the earth under your
control. I am putting you in
charge of the fish, the birds, and all the wild animals.
I have provided all kinds of food for you to eat.
I have looked at everything that I have made and I am very pleased.’”
(Genesis 1:27f) Wisdom scriptures imply that we have the
ability to learn new and better ways to order our lives.
Like God, we are also creators.
We have taught ourselves how to improve crop yields, how to fly,
how to extend human life with better nutrition, medications and surgical
procedures, how to build communities to make these advancements possible
and how to communicate within a short period of time to the world’s vast
populations in their native languages.
We have learned to build on what others have given us because
some of us have paid attention to them. This thirst for
knowledge and understanding comes from Mom and Dad when we are children.
If
we do not learn people skills, develop a love for education, discover
the desire to be of service and have enough self-love to care for
ourselves, when our lives begin in earnest – we begin our independent
living already handicapped. I shared some thoughts about motherhood
on Mother’s Day and today, I want to spend some time distilling some of
the teaching qualities of our Dads.
Years ago, I was
driving my VW bug when my
engine began to sputter. When I noticed that the red
engine light was on, I pulled
off the highway. I lifted
the hood and found that my fan belt had broken.
I remembered that my car had a spare fan belt under the hood so I
retrieved it and tried to install it.
No matter what I did, I could not torque the belt over the engine
pulley. While I was looking
at the engine, I sensed a car pulling up behind me.
To my utter chagrin, a woman approached me, dressed in business
suit, and asked if she could help.
She told me that she used to have a VW beetle and how her father
taught her to work on them.
In fact, her dad taught her how to install a new engine. I did the work but she gave me step by step instructions on how to install the fan belt. Once I learned that the pulley on the engine splits in half, changing the belt was no problem. I thanked her profusely as I realized that the knowledge base of women was changing. When Lois and I were
on Capitol Hill in She told me that her
Dad was an auto mechanic and decided that he would teach his daughters
how to work on their own cars.
She said, “The three of us were his captive audience. From him we
also learned how to throw a baseball and a football just like the boys.
He wanted us to know how to take care of ourselves.” During most of our
lifetimes many of us have witnessed the shift in the roles that men and
women play. As more women were
entering the work force, a shift had to take place.
Many men have stepped up and have
learned how to do the laundry, how to use cookbooks, how to iron their
shirts and how to drive their kids to soccer practice.
For several generations, these
skills are being witnessed and learned by children as the changes in the
more traditional roles of Mom and Dad continue to accelerate. Today, what needs to
be added to the chemistry of
many families are these words from our Proverb:
Trust in the Lord
with all your heart. Never
rely on what you think you know. Remember the Lord in everything you do,
and he will show you the right way.
Never let yourself think that you are wiser than you are; simply
obey the Lord and refuse to do wrong. If you listen and obey what I am
teaching you, your responses to life will be like good medicine, healing
your wounds and easing your pain. The lack of hearing these words in many of our families today could easily be the reason why so many lives implode once children become adults and are on their own. It is one thing to learn how to work on cars and throw a football and quite another to leave the home armed with a deeply grounded faith in our Creator’s love of us and in God’s ability to offer faithful guidance. Jesus gave form to
our Proverb when he said, “Seek first the During Annual
Conference this year, our Bishop used his daughter, Rebecca, in a
message to illustrate what is happening in households everywhere. The
Bishop is keenly aware that we are losing this generation as active
participants in the life of the church.
As a father, the Bishop urged that people find new ways to reach
out to others, particularly our children, many who consider themselves
nominally religious
people. He and his daughter
engaged in a fascinating conversation that really covered a rich
landscape of issues --
http://www.bwcumc.org/ministries/connecting/rebecca.
Both of them concluded that even the Bishop would be ill-advised
to coerce his daughter to attend church now that she is a college
graduate.
What our bishop and his wife did while their children were growing was
to provide them with a valuable foundation to come back to when their
spiritual needs caused them to
hunger for a deeper meaning and purpose to their lives. In his book,
The Prophet, Kahlil Gibran
provided guidance for parents who may be concerned about the spiritual
welfare of their children.
He wrote: Your children are not your children. They are the sons and daughters of Life’s longing for itself. They come through you but not from you; and though they are with you, they do not belong to you. You may give them your love but not your thoughts, for they have their own thoughts. You may house their bodies but not their souls. Their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannot visit, not even in your dreams. You are the bows from which your children as living arrows are sent forth. Send those living arrows forth with gladness, joy and love while keeping a steady, confident and reassuring hand on the bow. One of the most reassuring aspects of
the created order is that we cannot change anything about it because of
what we feel, think or believe.
The created order has no personality; it marches on giving
rise to the cliché, “The passing of time waits on no one.”
The vast energy pattern of the universe does not care whether we
understand the big picture or
not. The universe remains what it is, a perfect classroom for teaching us how to create as God creates. It also guarantees that all of us will one day graduate even if it takes some of us thousands and thousands of years before we do so. It may take that long for some of us to awaken to the reality that spiritual evolution is our purpose for being here. Our greatest temptation as human beings
is to fall in love with the
aspects of our classroom by
acquiring
and enjoying our material
possessions, tools for living in this world that will serve no purpose
when we transition to the world of spiritual energy.
Even as countless
high profile men have recently fallen from grace because of their poor
judgment, such a stumble may be the best thing that has ever happened to
them. They quickly learn how
temporary and meaningless their power, wealth and notoriety really are
because it defined them one moment and was gone the next.
The world’s people blinked once and began immediately to look
adoringly at a new cast of characters that is not that far behind.
The universe God
created uses our detours, our stumbles, our loneliness, our lack of
purpose and our self-serving values to teach us how to find more
creative horizons toward which to travel.
Nothing is evil that offers guidance toward helping us develop a more
creative imagination and more timeless values.
Again, verse 7 says,
“Never let yourself think that you are wiser than you are; simply obey
the Lord and refuse to do wrong.”
If we were never taught
this simple rule in our homes and we never attended a church to be
reminded of its wisdom, a valuable roadmap to wholesome living was never
in our possession when we set forth on our life’s journey. For example, suppose
you lived in the You may have
fantasized about sitting at an outdoor restaurant with friends
overlooking a panoramic view of the ocean as the magnificent cloud
formations slowly co-mingled with each other.
Regardless of your
beliefs, your faith, your dreams, your thoughts, and your alleged
knowledge about Bermuda, you cannot get there by flying west to This is the way we
experience life. Think of
it. This Proverb was in
existence during the reign of King Solomon, close to a thousand years
before Jesus was born.
Many of us make our lives very
complicated because we are governed more by our perceived needs and
wants than we are about issues concerned with our spiritual evolution. As flawed as we
earthly fathers are, we must pass on this wisdom to our children.
With patience greater than the Father of the Prodigal Son, God
waits for each of us to come out of
the rain
forest and into
the light in order to enter the next phase of our journey.
All the clues we need to chart a course
toward our own spiritual evolution have been present for thousands of
years.
All any of us have had to
do is develop a passion to follow them.
Our Creator-parent
knew that each of us would eventually find our way when we are
ready. We either learn now
or we will learn later. Having
free will does not mean that we can write the curriculum for what we
came here to do. A wonderful
truth this morning is that God’s
patience and love can never become exhausted by our persistence in
clinging to our ignorance. |