"Connecting With The Spirit Whisperer"


Sermon Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – April 29, 2012

Centenary United Methodist Church

I John 3:16-24, John 10:11-18

    
    This morning’s Gospel lesson is one of those scriptures that feature an “I am” passage.  In this one, Jesus told his listeners, “I am the Good Shepherd.  As the Father knows me and I know the Father, in the same way, I know my sheep and my sheep know me.” (John 10:14f) 

    Everyone listening to Jesus understood what that meant.  Shepherds know their sheep. If anyone but the shepherd tried to gather his sheep, they would scatter.  Shepherds have an authentic bond with their animals. This reference is so critical in our understanding of Jesus’ ability to connect with the human spirits of people.  Jesus is the ultimate Spirit Whisperer.

    What is a whisperer? This term is used to describe the skills of a few people who have the uncanny ability to communicate with animals.  Some people who work with horses know how to approach a horse unknown to them and instantly bond with it.  The horse will actually follow their directions.

    One of these fearless, risk-taking nature guys on television told how he once came upon a female grizzly bear and her three cubs.  The bear charged him.  The giant animal came to within ten feet of him and stopped. She roared and roared her protests as he stood there gently speaking to her.  She was not happy with him being so near to her cubs but she did not attack.  She gradually walked back to her cubs and the four of them wandered off into the wilderness.

    Whatever this quality is, Jesus had it.  There are so many illustrations of his skill as a spirit whisperer in the Gospels that it is difficult to determine which one is the best.  There is the story of Nicodemus.  This teacher had been deeply influenced by listening to Jesus preach that he visited the Master one evening. 

    Jesus tried to explain how different it is to interpret life by using spirit as the source of his understanding rather than by the logic of his mind or by his emotional responses.  Jesus told him that the difference is like between night and day or like being born again -- equipped with a different set of filters to screen what is authentic and what is not. (John 3:6f) 

    When Jesus met Zacchaeus, whatever he said to him over lunch was enough to cause the chief of all tax collectors to say, “I will give half of my wealth to the poor, and if I have cheated anyone, I will pay them back four times what I have taken.”  (Luke 19:8)

    What is fascinating is that each of us has a spiritual sponge inside of us that wants to soak up anything that nourishes it.  A unique characteristic of this sponge is that millions of people do not realize that they have it.  Jesus used his words to penetrate all of the seemingly automatic responses people had developed over the years, like having hatred of the Samaritans, the Roman occupation and the high taxes.  He knew that our spirits can remain dormant until they are discovered and trained.

    Many of you know that I am a PK -- a preacher’s kid.  As a boy, I did not like to attend church.  It was boring.  The lessons my father discussed in his sermons were for adults.  With Sunday school and a church service, I felt that spending two hours once a week at church was a waste.  But, I did not hesitate to sit in front of the television later that day to watch football.

    When I grew older and my dad began to recycle some of his sermon illustrations, I would call him on it.   He once said, “Dick, I can’t believe you remembered that.  I have not used that story for eleven years.”  Keep in mind, I never intentionally listened to my Dad during his sermons, but something inside of me was absorbing what he had been saying through the years.

    As most of you know, Margot White recently had her hip surgically repaired.  Apparently, Margot has a low tolerance for morphine because the medical staff had been unsuccessful in awakening her days after the procedure. When Lois and I learned of her condition during a visit, I stood over Margot and said, “Margot, this is Dick Stetler and I want you to know that your mascara is a mess.”  David, Linda, Lois and I watched Margot produce a smile but she did not open her eyes.  She heard and later she would have no memory of that incident.  This is the part of us that never sleeps.

    If our minds drift during a sermon or we tune out because we have a life-issue that has distracted us with worry, remember there is a part of us that is listening. This is why church is so important even though hours later, we may not remember much of what was said from the pulpit. Jesus knew that his words would reach the spirit of his listeners and they still do.

    Tucked away in our lesson is a very curious verse -- “There are other sheep which belong to me that are not in this sheep pen.  I must bring them, too; they also listen to my voice and they will respond, making one flock with one shepherd.”   Who are these sheep?  Thomas understood and that understanding is what inspired him to take his message to India.  The Apostle Paul understood and he made three missionary journeys to use his skill as a spirit whisperer. 

    While all of us are spirit-beings, we are different from each other.  Part of what makes us different are the interests we have, the values we want to develop and whether or not we are people that are energized by elements of the external world or motivated by the desire to cultivate and master the spirit that controls every decision we make. 

    Some years ago there was a group of friends that decided to vacation together.  They secured a packaged travel-plan that would take them to the UK, France, Germany and Italy. This three week vacation was designed to be a once in a lifetime experience.  The three couples wanted to make the most of it. 

    When they secured their hotel accommodations, one couple decided to eat lightly and go to bed early to compensate for the time change.  The other two couples decided to begin the new day touring immediately and then venture into the night scene.  The dream vacation had been planned very carefully by the six of them.  What had not been anticipated was the rather broad latitude of interpretation each gave to the meaning of “Let’s make the most of it!”     

    The two couples that spent their daylight hours shopping, taking pictures of various landmarks and then later exploring the fast-paced night life, arrived back at the hotel at 2:30 a.m. completely exhausted.  They were in no condition to do anything the next day.  They had come to play and to spend money without having their children in tow.   

    The other couple wanted to see paintings by French artists, tour museums and eat at a variety of restaurants known for their authentic cultural cuisines.  As close as these three couples were as friends, they parted ways almost immediately because four of them wanted to party all the time and the other couple wanted to learn about the countries they were visiting. 

    When they were in Italy, one of them summarized this difference very clearly when he said, “Who cares about the ancient Etruscan culture when there are remarkable pubs with live music to visit?”  The six of them attended the same young adult Sunday school class.

    We humans simply do not mature on the same timeline.  What we need to remember is that the spirit whisperer constantly wants to encourage us to open the doors to our remarkable futures. The quality of our futures, however, will always match the attitudes our spirits generate. We create with our thoughts.  We create with our emotions.  We also create with our spirits.  If this were not so, Jesus would not have sent his disciples into the world to become spirit whisperers to help guide others on their journey.

    Without the willingness to listen, however, a number of us will spend our lives as though we are at Disney World going from one ride to another, always looking for the next good time, waiting for the next exciting product to come on the market and wanting the latest and best car to drive. People grow older but many of them do not grow up.  Many spirit-beings are not listening for the cues that might open doors for them to futures that are beyond their wildest imaginations.

    Jesus used a lot of agricultural references as vehicles to carry his message.  He told his listeners that they will mature in spirit if they remain part of the vine.  He also said that God prunes the branches that do not bear fruit so that even more fruit will grow. (John 15:1f)  If we pay attention to what he was teaching, think of how differently we would interpret our life-reversals or our less informed decisions that caused very disappointing results.

    Those of us that have learned to listen to him understand such experiences as opportunities to change our expectations. For example, there was a time when Jesus told his listeners to let go of callous, judgmental feelings and responses that will never serve them. (Matthew 18:22)  Are we listening to that?  Or, do we say, “I don’t care what Jesus said; what happened to me is not right!” 

    When we personalize frustrating and painful events, we have allowed something in the external world to rob us of our peace.  In many cases, we choose hostility as our value when our world is not the way we want it.  The spirit whisperer has said, “The only way you are going to strengthen your skills of peace and patience is by choosing to do so in the heat of passion when something you want desperately is denied.” (Matthew 6:21)  Are we listening?

    One afternoon, I received a call from a woman whose wedding ceremony I had performed a number of months before.  She had just been terminated from her job and was frantic and furious.  She told me that she had received excellent performance reviews.  However, one of the executive’s nieces was being hired to replace her.  She wanted to sue the company. 

    I said, “Linda, let go of this!  Look at this experience as the currents of life taking you away from something so that you can be somewhere else.”  She protested.  I asked, “Are you an adventurer in life or are you a person that needs to cling tightly to what you believe you understand?  If you believe in yourself, you will let go.”  She let go completely. 

    I asked her to name a company where she would like to work.  She named one.  I told her to apply for a position.  I said, “If you are told that they are not hiring, tell the person that you want to work without compensation for six months to gain experience.  Tell the Human Resources manager that you want an internship.”

    After getting several clearances, H.R. called and gave her that internship. When she called me with the news, I said, “Good, live off your husband’s salary for that length of time.  Show up early every morning.  Use your personality to network with everyone you meet.  Stay late and help others finish their work. Make working there a way of life rather than your need to receive a paycheck.” After three months they hired her.  Many companies make room for someone who demonstrates that she thoroughly enjoys what she is doing and produces.

    None of us will reach our potential by clinging to what we think we know.  Moses tried that while talking to God, if we can imagine that.  He told God, “I am a nobody!  How can I go to Pharaoh and lead the Israelites out of Egypt?” (Exodus 3:11)  He did not believe in himself even though he had been reared as a Prince of Egypt and was promised the guidance from God.

    We are never alone in life.  We become empowered the minute we extend ourselves into the unknown armed only with faith and trust that doors will open.   If faith is an idea we use only when the outcome is fairly certain, that is not faith. Faith is when we take a leap knowing that there is no safety net.  When we remain connected to our Creator, we are never without the spirit whisperer that knows what we need long before we do.   (Matthew 6:33)