"Is God’s Love An Entitlement?"


Meditation Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – March 11, 2012

Centenary United Methodist Church

Psalm 19; I Corinthians 1:18-25


Recently, Sir John Swan wrote a newspaper editorial in which he said:

No where in our Constitution does it say that people are entitled to a job, to have their bills paid, to have food put on their table or to ensure that they are put first just because they are a Bermudian.  Some Bermudians have a misguided sense of entitlement that they are deserving of some particular benefit or privilege just because they are Bermudian.

    Could such thinking also be applied to the way religious people carry themselves in societies everywhere?  It was certainly true in Jesus’ day when the Pharisees dressed the part, honored God with their tithes, prayed articulately in the public marketplace, and let everyone know that they were clearly in God’s favor.  In fact, the Jews considered themselves “God’s chosen people.”

    What appears quite peculiar throughout Jesus’ ministry is that he had little time for religious people.  In fact, he preferred to be with people that seldom lived up to the teachings from their religious heritage.  What do we suppose Jesus would do if he were walking the earth today?

    Some time ago I saw two paintings that contained interesting messages.  One featured a preacher expounding on God’s Word from his pulpit.  In the front row sat Jesus who had fallen asleep.  

    A second painting was not as funny as the first.  It showed a pastor in the pulpit again delivering a magnificent, well polished sermon in front of a massive congregation.  He had his arms outstretched as he looked to the left.  Between his arms in a cartoon bubble was a large church building, a multi-leveled educational wing, several church busses, a spacious parsonage and several cars. 

    On the other side of the pastor there stood a shadowy figure of a man on the margin of the painting, a figure that was barely visible.  To perceptive observers, they could see a nail print that was clearly visible on one of the hands of that figure.     

    Under the painting were these words, “But he turned away sorrowful because he was a man of many possessions.”  These words were used to describe what happened when a rich young man had come to Jesus for advice and Jesus said, “Sell everything you have, give the money to the poor and follow him.” 

    In our lesson today, the Apostle Paul referenced a passage from the prophet Isaiah. I thought it would be useful to place Isaiah’s quote in the broader context of what he wrote:

The Lord said, “These people claim to worship me, but their words are meaningless, and their hearts are always dwelling somewhere else.  Their religion is nothing but human rules and traditions, which they have simply memorized.  So I will startle them with one unexpected experience after another.  Those who consider themselves wise in their religious practices will turn out to look like fools, and all their clever ideas about My Will for their lives will be useless.”  (Isaiah 29:13-14)

    If we return to Sir John Swan’s editorial comments, we learn that being a Bermudian is an entitlement.  It is an entitlement to all the opportunities that are afforded to everyone who was fortunate enough to be born on our island.  Everyone, however, needs to develop their own potential.  Life skills, education, personal wealth and friendly personalities are the fruit that comes from those that are eager to grab onto life with both hands.   

    This morning we are going to consider if God’s love for each of us is an entitlement.  The answer to the question posed in my sermon title is unequivocally, “Yes!”  There can be no question about God’s unconditional love for each of us.  God’s love is an entitlement and remains our linkage to the realm of spirit from whence we came before we incarnated on the earth.

    After quoting Isaiah, Paul wrote in our lesson, “For God in his wisdom made it impossible for people to know him by means of their own wisdom.”   By writing that, Paul was telling his readers that while God’s love is an entitlement, there are no guarantees that life will be smooth sailing while we are here. 

    In spite of how biblically based our beliefs are and how much spiritual wisdom we have discovered, no religion can lay claim to a formula or a belief system that can describe with any accuracy how God’s love is disbursed among the human family. 

    The entitlement of God’s love and believing that we have been saved gives us nothing more than an opportunity to walk through life loving others as God loves us.  The cross teaches us that Jesus was able to do this with nails in his hands and feet.  Throughout his ministry he said, “Follow me.”   This means – “Love as I have loved.”

    The late Ruth Graham wrote a book entitled, Legacy of a Pack Rat.  Ruth was the wife of the well-known Evangelist, Billy Graham.  In her book she tells the story of what happened when a young Bedouin struck and killed his best friend during a heated argument.  Knowing the rigid laws of his people, the young man fled and sought sanctuary in the chief’s tent.  After hearing what the young man had done, the chief assured him that he would be safe until the matter could be settled legally.

    Word spread not only of the killing but also where the boy was hiding.  A large crowd gathered outside of the chief’s tent demanding that justice be done according to the traditions of their people, traditions that prescribed death by stoning.  The chief would not surrender the boy and ordered everyone to return to their tents.

    A spokesperson for the group yelled, “You don’t understand!  You do not know who it was that he killed.  The chief repeated himself, “I would like all of you to remain calm and return to your tents.  I have given my word to him that the boy will remain safe.”  In frustrated anger, the same man blurted out, “Chief, it was your son that he killed!”

    A deep silence fell over the crowd, so much so that nothing could be heard but the sound of the wind as it swept over the dunes.  Visibly shaken, the chief bowed his head and remained speechless. Everyone remained very pensive as each waited for the response of the chief in light of this news.  Knowing the relationship the young man had with his son and how rage had blinded him in a moment of passion, the chief finally raised his head and spoke, “Then the young man I have in my tent will become my son and one day everything that I have will be his.”

    Ruth went on to write that God’s love for each of us is greater than that of the chief.  She wrote that love comes when we are unworthy.  Love comes when we are blind and cannot see anything else but our hurt. Love comes when human justice demands judgment, punishment and banishment.  She wrote that God’s love continues to surround us for all eternity.

    Herein is the difference between God’s love and our desire to love, the difference between God’s wisdom and our own wisdom.  If God’s will is that one day all of us will embody love’s creative energy patterns, certainly God could not radiate anything less.   Clearly, for God, love is a one way street.  When we learn that our spirits have the same opportunity to love without counting the cost to us, our spirits soar to greater heights of awareness.

    Many years ago, a newborn named Aaron stopped gaining weight.  A few months later what hair the child had began to fall out.  At first, the boy's pediatrician said that he would probably be a dwarf, but all his vital signs and physical indicators appeared normal.  The child's health did not improve.  After getting a second opinion, Aaron's parents received news that was beyond their comprehension.

    Aaron was born with a condition called Progeria.  This is a rare genetic disorder that causes the body to accelerate the aging process.  Aaron never grew taller than three feet.  Hair did not form on any part of his body.  The boy died in his early teens of symptoms associated with old age. He looked like a little old man. 

    Aaron's father is a Rabbi who found himself doubting God's presence.  He could not comprehend the unfairness and the lack of justice of a disease that would rob an innocent child of the rest of his life.  He stood torn between the world his senses understood and the world he knew was governed by a loving God. He struggled with himself for a year and a half.  Then he realized that his preoccupation with his son's death had taken up residence in his mind. 

    The Rabbi began to realize that God never promised anyone a life free from pain and disappointment.  He reasoned that God would never cause anything that is debilitating, devastating or incomprehensible.  As his thinking about the nature of God slowly changed, he began to notice the community of supporters that had been surrounding him.

    He had not noticed the loving presence of so many in his congregation during his period of near total self-absorption.  He learned that when he carried his loss peacefully, allowing his faith to show, he enabled others to shoulder their struggles with equal grace.   This is the gift Jesus gave to humanity from the cross.

    Inspired by his transformation, the Rabbi wrote a book that produced healing thoughts for millions of people when their circumstances took them into the realm of the shadows.  Perhaps many of you have heard of his book and have read it.  It is a book worth studying.  It is called, When Bad Things Happen to Good People.  Of his experience, Rabbi Harold Kushner wrote;

When I think of Aaron and all that his life has taught me, I realize how much I have gained.  By reframing my experience, I am now at peace with God and with myself. Yesterday's experience of Aaron's loss seems less painful.  Today, I am not afraid of tomorrow.

    When we believe that we live on the sunny side of the street because we are followers of Jesus Christ and that we will always be loved by God, we are correct in our beliefs.  Life, however, demands that we energize those beliefs every day during each painful moment, each personal crisis, and each time we feel unloved or neglected, and each time we must endure betrayal by loved ones and each time someone judges our character because of something they believe about us.  We need to remember that Jesus had every one of these experiences in his last full week on earth.  None of them prevented him from loving others as God loves. 

    This is why Paul wrote, “The message of Christ being hung on a cross demonstrates both the power of God and the wisdom of God.  For what seems to be foolish nonsense is wiser than human wisdom and what seems to be a weakness of God is stronger than human strength.” Jesus showed us that nothing in the external world has the power to defeat us until we decide that it can.    

    Recently, there was a commercial on television that featured a toddler and her adventures with a large cardboard box. She is seen having a wonderful time crawling in and out of that box. The last scene has her walking down the hallway with the box over her head, completely blind to where she was going.

    That is a near perfect metaphor for what many of us experience.  The treasure in the field and the pearl of great price were examples Jesus used to describe what it is like to live in the Kingdom of God right now. Too often we forsake the opportunity that having a loving spirit provides us by becoming distracted by all the cardboard boxes that are in the classroom of our experiences.   While we have the entitlement of God’s eternal love, we are the only ones that can boldly pick up our crosses and follow him.