"Living Requires A Lot Of Patience”


Sermon Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – June 3, 2012

Centenary United Methodist Church

Romans 8:12-17; Isaiah 6:1-10

 

    Most of us are acquainted with God’s call of Isaiah.  In fact, our final hymn this morning features this episode in his life.  After he had his dramatic vision of God’s presence, Isaiah was given the awareness that all his sins were as though they had never happened.  This sense of total forgiveness brought a contagious euphoria to his life.  When he heard God ask, “Who will be our messenger?  Whom shall I send?”  Isaiah’s jubilant response was, “Here am I send me?”

    This is generally where our discussion about God’s calling Isaiah begins and ends.  Pastors often use this text as a springboard for various mission projects.  We seldom move on in the passage to learn what God was asking Isaiah to say.  Here is that message:

Tell the people this message:  ‘No matter how much you listen, you will not understand.  No matter how much you look, you will not know what is happening.  The truth I want to give you will make your minds dull, your ears will not hear, your eyes will not see and your minds will wander from understanding anything I say.  However, if some of you chose to understand and focus on the guidance I am giving you, your spirits will be healed and you will hear.  You will see and understand.  (Isaiah 6:9f)    

    This morning we are going to explore why these words are as true today as they were over 2,700 years ago.  From these words we learn that God’s plan for the spiritual evolution of humankind is an infinite process, a process that takes place one person at a time.  When we understand that we are spirit-beings in quest of enhancing the spiritual awareness and evolution of others, our purpose requires a lot of patience.  

    Every person in each generation has to learn the identity of who is living inside his or her body. The vast majority of people, however, are not ready to hear, see and understand this message.   Each of us tends to personalize our experiences in the material world and we are not trained to focus on matters of spirit.  Initially, it appears to be too abstract to bother learning about it, particularly with all the stimulation coming from the material world. The substance of Isaiah’s message was that people will choose to remain ignorant about their spiritual nature.

    I remember a visit from a fifteen year old some years ago who was obsessing over a young boy in her class.  Her eating and sleeping habits were affected.  She could not study.  She had temporarily abandoned many of her friends.  She came to me for some coaching and asked, “How can I get Jimmy to notice me? He doesn’t even know I exist.  Boys are so stupid!”  Like countless other people, she was looking for a better strategy for reaching her goal.

How would she have responded had I initially provided this advice?

God really wants you to be yourself.  You are very attractive, you are a brilliant student and you have a remarkable future ahead of you.  If Jimmy cannot recognize your qualities, well, just remember that there are thousands of fish in the sea.  If you change who you are to match what you think he wants, your life will become very complicated.  Why remain fascinated with a boy that does not notice you or care that you exist?  Becky, why don’t you pray about it?

    She would have looked at me and said, “What?”  She knew nothing about God, prayer or matters of the spirit.  She had been referred to me from a teen in my youth group.  When there is no spiritual awareness in people’s lives, how do they ever understand what is happening to them?

    What God was telling Isaiah is that when people have their attentions fixed on matters of the material world, they will neglect noticing the importance of feeding the part of them that they cannot see.  They will not seek values of peace and waiting patiently.  If we look at ourselves, we know how we detest being inconvenienced by waiting in long lines.

    Today, what we are seeing happening all over the world are people responding to their unhappiness with protests and violence to get what they believe they need and want.  Having patience appears to be an undeveloped skill of spirit.  We can easily justify our impatience and run to various calls-for-action because of the logic once supplied by Edmond Burke, “Evil will only triumph when good people stand by and do nothing.”

    Rather than being patient with the unfolding of creation, people are angry that some people have excellent financial resources and they do not.  They are angry that they cannot find work, angry because austerity measures are trimming their entitlement programs and angry because they believe their government has failed them.  There was a day when everyone assumed full responsibility for their lives because there was little or no government to intervene. 

    Do we see a common theme in these examples?  Do we sense why God and our spiritual awareness are no longer part of our most essential questions about life?  God told Isaiah to tell his listeners, “No matter how much you listen, you will not understand.  No matter how much you look, you will not know what is happening.”  

    People do not realize that the public cannot fix governments by replacing the people that are currently in power.  We cannot fix the church by moving around pastors.  We cannot give anything a permanent fix.  What we can do is to continue to refine our patience with life and to teach others how to accomplish that in their own lives. 

    One of the aspects of life that all of us have in common is that healing happens only from the inside out.  It is we who must be healed before the conditions of the external world are free from anger, greed and corruption.  When societies have to settle conflicts by using their militaries and when police have to be deployed to safeguard the public interests, we have thousands of years of spiritual evolution still in front of us.  A lot of patience is required.

    Jesus understood this process better than anyone.  His goal was to change the attitudes and goals of everyone in the world.  Think of the infinite patience he must have had.  He never traveled more than ninety miles from where he was born.  He never wrote anything.  There were no printing presses, no recording devices, no power-point presentations and no websites.  He had to trust that his message would circulate by word-of-mouth long after he was gone.  His mission was left in the hands of other men and women.

    There were times when Jesus was powerless to help people. (Mark 6:5)  His listeners often responded to him the way many people are doing today.   People may not say it, but their body language and choices communicate, “What on earth does the Church have to say to me, what? . . . ‘Love my neighbor’?  If Jesus knew my neighbors, he would never have said that! The church has become irrelevant.”  Is it?  Or, have people made it that way with their loss of interest?  Isaiah’s words were an accurate assessment of the human condition. 

    Once an elementary school boy was labeled by authorities as being hyper-active or ADHD.  He had behavior and attitude difficulties with school and was being rejected by his classmates.  I asked his mother, “Why don’t you bring him to Sunday School?  She shook her head and looked at me as though I had just asked a ridiculous question.  She responded, “What he needs, Sunday School cannot give him.  How can hearing about Noah gathering animals into an ark make any difference in his life?  Come on, Dick, get real!”

    Not only was that mother misinformed about what can happen when Sunday school is a part of her son’s impressionable life, but she was trying to fix her son without any guidance that might teach him how to better manage his inner world.  People would prefer to control their symptoms with medication than understand and address what causes them.  Again, Isaiah’s message is very relevant today. 

    When we patiently watch how people are behaving today and the attitudes they display, we recognize how true Isaiah’s words are today.  People do not understand what they are experiencing.  There is one thing, however, that people cannot sugarcoat or escape and that is themselves.

    One morning during my college days I was shaving in the bathroom of my college dormitory.  Standing next to me was a young man that had everything money could buy.  His father owned eighteen factories that produced high-end women’s fashions.  He was given an XKE Jaguar convertible at his high school graduation.  I once needed to borrow a sport coat and I found a $500 Hickey Freeman on the floor of his closet.  I brushed off the dust bunnies, shook out the wrinkles and put it on.  The fabric was fabulous.

    Paul stopped shaving that morning and said, “Dick, where am I going?”  What do I have to look forward to for the rest of my life?  I have everything and yet I have nothing.”  I said, “Paul, you are handsome, well-mannered, healthy, financially secure and have not yet found your niche. That’s all!  Find something that really matters to you and make a difference.” 

    Every generation that comes along has to learn that the material world is like a holographic drama.  We are one of the actors in a play that has been going on for thousands of years.  Heroes come and go.  Nations rise and collapse.  Having patience with the unfolding of creation is the most remarkable value anyone can have.   We cannot change the world, but we can change ourselves and become a part of the spiritual formation of the future.

    One afternoon a call came to the office requesting that I visit a woman who was dying.  As I sat by her beside and listened to her life’s story, she reminded me of a person that paid attention when Isaiah preached 2,700 years ago.  Her life also reminded me of Jesus words, “Consider the lilies in the field, how they grow.  They neither toil nor spin and yet I tell you that Solomon in all his glory was never arrayed like one of these.”  (Matthew 6:28f)

    She worked for AT&T having achieved only a high school diploma.  She was a fast learner, however, and did the work of three people.  When she retired, that is the number of people it took to replace her.  Those in positions above her took advantage by accepting credit for what she did.  Her accomplishments made her supervisors appear outstanding.  They got the bonuses and she stayed with a cost-of-living increase for most of her career. 

    The others wanted to climb the corporate ladder, securing the larger salaries and benefits. She never made it her business to know what motivated other people.  She loved her job and truly enjoyed allowing others to get the credit.  As I continued to listen to her story she said,

I never needed to earn a lot of money.  I did not need a title after my name.  I have never needed anything in life because everyday I was happy and grateful to God for what I had.  We common people in the trenches were like family.  We enjoyed helping to make our supervisors’ jobs easier and all of us wanted to deliver the best possible service for our company.  That’s how we lived.  What more does anyone want or need? We had it all and we knew that. 

    She was a woman that contented herself by making her place in the world identical to living in Heaven every day.  She had infinite patience with every personality that came into her life.  She never worried about anything.  She held the belief that whatever will be, will be. 

    She said, “When I leave this life, I will remain happy just knowing that I was a part of whatever happens next.  After all, isn’t everything in God’s hands anyway?”  She lived a beautiful life because of the patience she brought to each day.  Three days after my visit she made her exit from this world.  Hopefully, we can take a page from her life and insert it into the loose leaf notebook that describes our own spiritual journey.