"O Lord, It’s Hard To Be Humble"


Sermon Delivered By Reverend Richard E. Stetler – September 1, 2013

Centenary United Methodist Church

Micah 6:6-8; Luke 14:1, 7-14

 

    This morning we are going to discuss a personal skill that remains among the least considered in most societies.   That skill is humility.  Some years ago, Mac Davis wrote a song that described the challenges that come to some people.   It begins with, “O Lord, it’s hard to be humble when you’re perfect in every way.  I can’t even look in the mirror; Cause I get better looking each day.  To know me is to love me” and so on. When audiences hear it, they laugh at every verse. There is a lot of truth, however, in Mac’s words. Consider how hard it was for Jesus.

    In the Gospels there are numerous references where Jesus tried to keep secret his supernatural abilities.  For example, when he healed people, he often gave strict orders to the witnesses not to tell anyone what they had just seen.  (Mark 7:36)  After the experience of Peter, James and John on the Mt. of Transfiguration, Jesus told them not to tell anyone what they had seen until the Son of Man is raised from the dead.  (Matthew 17:9)  

    If there was ever a man that had a right to radiate his pride and flaunt his notoriety, it was Jesus.  He could not hide.  We can hardly imagine what it would be like to receive our sight when we had born blind.  How could anyone experience healing like that and remain silent? 

    Even though his fame spread everywhere, he never lost sight of his purpose.  He stayed humble with his abilities and even admitted that “the Son of Man has no place to lay his head.” (Luke 9:58).  He died never seeing a church building, never hearing a choir sing the great anthems of our faith and never knowing that anything he said would be remembered.  He left the memory of his ministry in the province of our Creator. 

    It is quite mysterious that much of what Jesus said has been preserved for over 2,000 years, through early Christian persecutions, through the Dark Ages and through the vast divisions in the Church during and after the Reformation.   Jesus relied totally on God to allow his verbal seeds to germinate in the minds and hearts of believers that heard them.  If there was a desire by Jesus to be remembered – it came in the form of attaching his memory to what his listeners did everyday – eating bread and drinking wine.  

    In our lesson today, Luke wrote of an episode where Jesus had been invited to a dinner at the home of a highly respected Pharisee.  This was a common practice among wealthy Pharisees.  They often invited Rabbis to their dwellings in the hopes of hearing some pearl of wisdom fall from their lips.  During these gatherings, the general public had a standing invitation to attend. 

    As people were finding their places to sit, Jesus noticed that a number of them were eagerly taking the best seats close to him and their host.  This observation inspired the Master to tell a story about a wedding feast where a number of the guests were taking the best seats, presumably near the bride and groom.

    Jesus suggested how embarrassing it would be if the host had to ask them to move because their seats had been reserved for others.  “It is better,” Jesus said, “to sit in the cheap seats and later to be invited by the host to come forward and sit in the orchestra section.”  In spite of Jesus’ lessons and example, people find humility missing from their highly prized values.

    In Western cultures, people find little encouragement to remain humble.  We continue to be bombarded with the opposite message.   In the business world, for example, when people are searching for a job, they are taught that their résumés have to capture the imaginations of those doing the hiring in a matter of seconds. 

    The current work environment has made job-seekers become competitive.  They are told that interviewing for a job is not the time to be humble.  The message is:  “Get noticed!  Attract attention to yourself. Be your own advocate.  No one will find you of value if you do not value yourself.  Get out there in the public eye!  Tell the interviewers how better off their company will be if you are part of their culture. ”     

    Given these pressures from society, who in their right mind wants to appear humble?  Why would anyone among us be motivated to allow our skills and accomplishments to go unnoticed?  Some people crave recognition, validation and being appreciated.  In fact, some people define themselves by such accolades. 

    When we were in the States in June, Lois needed a battery for her wristwatch.  We went to a jewelry store that services watches.   While we were waiting for the technician to install a new battery, I said to the store owner, “Cell phones keep the exact time.  Are these devices taking a bite out of your watch sales?”  He said,

Absolutely not!  We have not seen such a surge in watch sales as we are right now.  People are using them to make a fashion statement.  I have fifteen to twenty watches in a case especially designed for them.  The occasion dictates which one I will wear. 

    The entire advertising industry is geared to appeal to our insecurities, our feelings of inadequacy and fears about our health.  We are made to feel that we need to make a statement about who is living under our skin.  We see young, attractive models tossing around their silky hair demonstrating the results from a particular product.  The marketing evangelists try to convince us that our confidence will be heightened if we have teeth that are Clorox-white.   We find drivers having a spiritual experience while sitting behind the wheel of a particular car.

    Is there a point to remaining humble?  Absolutely there is, particularly, if we are people of faith.  Micah understood what humility will do.  He wrote, “What God requires of us is this:  to do what is just, to show constant love and to walk in humble fellowship with our God.”  (Micah 6:8)  That is a three point sermon in a nutshell.

     None of those three points had anything to do with influencing others or what specific memories about us that we would like preserved. Always remember that Jesus changed human history when absolutely no one at the time was aware that such a thing was happening.  An invisible presence is always operating behind the scenes as human consciousness evolves.

    In God’s reality insignificant people can become giants while people that become well-known by writing countless books, speaking in front of large audiences and featured on major talk-shows, come and go in one or two generations.  If they are remembered at all, such popular people often become only a casual footnote in human history.  How should we interpret these occurrences?

    None of us needs to help God with the process of Creation.   God has and will always be the sole Creator.  When we are living humble lives and we have no need to impress anyone, that is when God uses our faithfulness to change our environment. God can work through anyone in any circumstance when humanity is ready to experience its next level of spiritual evolution.  

    For example, Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was most reluctant to take any leading role in the Civil Rights Movement.  It took a group of lay-people to tell him that it was time for him to become involved. He never dreamed that he could become a game-changer in the world.

    There was a series of very curious, seemingly unrelated events that took place immediately following Dr. King’s “I have a Dream” speech.  George Raveling was a 26-year old volunteer that had only planned to attend the rally two days before the event.  He had no idea that he would find himself standing next to King as he delivered the speech.  George was the first person to greet King after he finished his address.  He asked him if he could have his 3-page manuscript.  Without hesitation, Dr. King handed it to George as he turned to greet an approaching Rabbi.      

    What is so unique about this sequence of events is that George preserved that manuscript where the words, “I have a dream” do not appear.   There is an asterisk in the manuscript near the end of the final page.  This is the place where King began to speak extemporaneously from his spirit.  His adlibbed words turned a four-minute talk into a sixteen minute masterpiece that will go down in history as one of the most remarkable speeches ever delivered.  His unprepared words changed the consciousness of a nation, and countless other societies.  Think about the origin of that burst of consciousness that totally caught Dr. King by surprise.

    Centuries ago a small group of men decided that the Bible had to become known as the Word of God.  This was done to prevent Rome’s version of Christianity from becoming tainted by other sects that were blossoming everywhere.  

    What is seldom asked by Biblical scholars concerns the source of inspiration that came to the various writers of the Scriptures.  These men had no Bible to guide their thinking.  Could it be that God’s inspiration is not locked up in a book of words, but rather pours forth from individuals when their passion for a new sense of community will no longer allow them to remain silent?  In other words, the source of Dr. King’s stream of consciousness is available to us today.    

     God does strange and unexpected things through people who have become humble disciples of Jesus Christ.  We never know when something we do or say gives form to an idea or value that God can use to transform the consciousness of others. There is nothing more powerful in human history than an idea whose time has come. 

     Ralph Waldo Emerson once expressed the spirit of humility beautifully when he wrote,

To laugh often and much:  To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children, to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends; to appreciate beauty, to find the best in others, to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, a garden patch, or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you lived.  This is to have succeeded