“Our Take-Away from
Christmas” Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – December
30, 2018 Centenary United Methodist Church Colossians
3:12-17; Luke 2:41-52 The end of one year and the beginning of a new one always
presents us with an opportunity to review our lives, particularly if we
would like 2019 to be better than the year we are leaving behind.
What we really want is to grow
emotionally, intellectually, and spiritually beyond where we were in
2018. Try to imagine how long
it takes for the afterglow of Christmas to wear off? How long does
it take for us to plunge headlong back into our lifestyles and daily
rituals? Sometimes what we
experience is just another Christmas that temporarily transforms our
environment and our getting together with friends and family. Our Scripture lesson
this morning discusses what took place when Jesus stayed behind in
Jerusalem. We may think
that this lesson is misplaced by being between Christmas and the New
Year. Actually, it is
ideal. When his parents found Jesus, he had engaged a group of teachers
with his precocious personality. His questions and
answers were intelligent enough to have attracted a good number of
professional Teachers of the Law.
However, whatever the result was from Jesus and this group of
teachers, it was not enough to
move the needle on their position regarding the
Laws of Moses controlling the
lives of their people. The same response can be
found between us and the themes of Advent and Christmas.
Most of the time, very little
moves the needle in us to the
point where we commit ourselves to change a number of our attitudes and
habits. We discuss the
themes of Hope, Love, Joy, Peace and God's spirit manifesting in a human
form, but so what? In every generation, it
is difficult for people to change their minds when they have trained
themselves for decades with responses that govern their lives.
When people become wedded to one
consistent pattern of responding to life, they can easily become blind
to new possibilities, innovations, and fresh thinking. Some time ago, someone
put together a verbal portrait
of what happens to us when our life-patterns seldom change. Our thinking
and emotions can become frozen
by using responses that we learned in our childhood.
Here is that verbal
portrait: If you always believe what you have always believed, you will always
feel the way you have always felt. If you always feel the way you always felt, you will always think the
way you have always thought. If you think the way you have always thought, you will always do what
you have always done.
If you always do what you have always done, you will get what you have
always gotten. If there is no change, there will be no change. During Christmas, we
welcome the break in our normal routines.
We enjoy giving and receiving. We enjoy the aromas that come from
our kitchens. We enjoy
letting go of our diets for a while as we eat seasonal foods that we may
bypass during the rest of the year. We enjoy being with our family and
friends.
There is nothing that
better illustrates the thrill of parents giving their children gifts as
when they use their cell phone's
movie application to record the moment when they open their
presents.
What is the take-away for many
children? Parents can passively reason, "Our children are way too
young to understand the real meaning of Christmas."
When Jesus' birthday is the occasion
of our celebration, what the children learn is that they are the ones
getting the
gold, frankincense, and
myrrh.
Children learn much faster from their early experiences than they do
from the words that come later from a Sunday school teacher or a bedtime
Christmas story being read to them. We are not always as skilled as we
think we are in passing our faith to the next generation. Once a young family had
gone to grandma’s house to celebrate the big annual Christmas meal, a
time when the entire family gathered. As soon as little Logan received
his plate of food, he began to eat like there was no tomorrow. Upon seeing this, his
mother scolded him, “Logan, please wait until we pray! Where are your
manners?” The little boy innocently responded, "We don’t need to.
This is Grandma's house." "Of course, we do!" his mother insisted,
"We always say a prayer before eating at our house." Logan said,
"That’s at our house, but this is Grandma’s house and grandma is
really a good cook." The entire family burst into laughter at
Logan's response. He sat there wondering what he said that was so funny. One has to wonder if anyone told Logan why his family uses their meal time to express gratitude to God for the many blessings that his family could easily take for granted. Seeing and hearing our parents pray is often where we learn our values. New practices and habits
may become part of our take-away
from Christmas. They can save us from the plateaus of not changing
anything about ourselves for decades. God does not need our gratitude.
God does not need to see us being gracious and forgiving in an effort to
honor or please God. God
does not need anything from us.
(Acts 17:24f) Gratitude
is what happens to us when we become transformed from taking
everything in our lives for granted.
The coming New Year
gives us another opportunity to
polish our responses of gratitude, instant forgiveness, and a chance
to experiment with letting go of issues in spite of their lack of
justice. Paul gave us a
listing of such qualities in our first lesson this morning.
(Colossians 3:12f) How many unintended
consequences occur when we engage in such
polishing?
Our mental health improves.
We demonstrate to everyone in our sphere of influence who we are
becoming.
Gaining a greater creativity to
our collection of life-responses can become one of our
take-aways from Christmas. Who knows but that one
of the take-aways of the
12-year old Jesus' question and answer session with the Teachers of the
Law was listening to their responses.
We can develop a clearer
understanding of our values when we observe and listen to how other
people respond to their life's circumstances.
Suppose Jesus asked those professional
theologians this question:
Which is better, to obey
the Laws of Moses meticulously when doing so is not our desire, or to
live the spirit of the Laws because that is our authentic desire to do
so? Our ancestors taught, 'Do not think ill of foreigners who are living
in your land. Treat them as
you would an Israelite, and love them as you love yourselves.'
(Leviticus 19:33f) As mentioned earlier, nothing in that exchange between Jesus and
the Teachers of Law did anything to
move the needle in their
thoughts, feelings, or spirit.
They were bound to remain entrenched in the traditions of their
heritage. Jesus grew
spiritually to a point where he could say to one of the great teachers
of Israel, "I am telling you the
truth; no one can understand God's will unfolding in the
world without changing completely how he or she thinks and feels." (John
3:3) Obviously, the needle had
moved in Jesus.
The needle must move in us,
too. The truth
is that Jesus does not and cannot save anyone, any more than a 12-year
old Jesus could save the group of professional Teachers of the Law from
remaining deeply rooted in their centuries-old system of beliefs and
practices. What saves us from being
consumed by the issues of this world is a
take-away in the midst of our
living. Our spirits become
touched by some experience in a way that ignites
the dormant fire of our
compassion and we are transformed completely. (Romans 12:2) A woman came into my
office one day after Christmas asking for my advice.
Her daughter wanted something for Christmas that was very
expensive. With great
reluctance, she and her husband bought it for her. Young Kate was
delighted beyond anything that they could have possibly imagined.
Several weeks following Christmas, Jackie no longer saw her
daughter playing with her sought after and much-loved present.
She asked her daughter where it was.
Kate hesitated and then responded: I'm sorry Mommy.
When I went back to school, I asked the girl who sits next to me
what she got for Christmas.
She didn't answer. I kept
asking. When we were eating
lunch together, she told me that her family did not have enough money to
give any gifts during Christmas.
Mommy, I have never heard of anyone who ran out of money at
Christmas. Please don't be mad with me, I gave to her what you and Daddy
gave to me. I wanted her to
have a Christmas like the one that I had. Jackie said, "What am I
going to tell John when he gets home. He will be furious. Right now, he
is in New York on business." I
said, There is only one
response, Jackie. You and
John cannot take away her experience of giving to that friend her most
valuable possession. This is not
to say that you two buy another one. Let her feel the loss of something
she highly desired. Let her know how proud both of you are of
her. This was her
take-away from Christmas and
one of the best I have ever heard thus far in my ministry happening to
one so young as Kate. You have done well with Kate.
Continue to praise her thoughtfulness. Jesus came to teach us how to live in this world.
The choice of how we do that is clearly ours and ours alone to
make. Kate made one of
those life-transforming decisions as a young girl.
What is one take-away
from last Tuesday's celebration of Jesus' birth that we want to build
into our lives? CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER
Merciful God, as we
approach the dawning of the New Year, teach us how best to reflect on
the effectiveness of our faithfulness. Jesus warned us not to look back,
but we do.
We are aware of
the promises we made, of relationships that we were going to mend, of
habits we had hoped to change, and of attitudes we were going to
discard.
Today offers us
time to reflect on how successful we were in our desires to change that
were so compelling last year. Guide us to continue our journey with
attitudes of compassion and kindness so that others can see your
presence in the person we have become.
Amen.
PASTORAL
PRAYER What a year
it has been, O God. There were times when our lives were beyond our
control because of the demands of our schedules. There were other times
when we could quiet ourselves, curl up on our sofa, and relax.
We come this morning on the last Sunday of the year asking once
again for the guidance as our lives continue to evolve and unfold.
Teach us why complaining never drove a
nail or hoisted a beam into place. Guide us to understand why resistant
attitudes never motivated us to roll up our sleeves or say, "Here am I.
Send me." Teach us why our spoken opinions are useless unless they are
helpful, insightful, and kind. Help us to learn why laughter is so
critical to the balance of life and why doing something for others
enables us to rise above the cares that usually defeat us. Show us why
commitment and discipline are as essential to living as is our being
open to possibilities for change. As we enter the New Year, may we do so
free of old hurts, liberated from habits that obscure our loving
spirits, and willing to embrace change as an energized option that helps
us to grow. Ignite in our souls the deep desire to live inspired lives.
We want to trust your guidance so completely that doing so melts all our
fears of the unknown.
We
pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, who taught us to say
when we pray . . . |