“Wonderful, Unintended Consequences” Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – January
21, 2018 Centenary United Methodist Church
Psalm 62:5-12; Mark 1:14-20 Our Scripture
lesson this morning focuses on Jesus choosing a number of his future
disciples. According to
Mark's Gospel, Jesus initially invited two sets of brothers; first he
selected Simon Peter and his brother Andrew.
Secondly, he invited two of his first cousins to join his group.
James and his brother John were fishermen working for their father,
Zebedee. What is curious
is how he enticed them to follow him.
He said, "Come with me and I will teach you how to catch
people." With the four being
fisherman, they were intrigued by what he said, so the four readily
accepted his invitation.
Part of Jesus' lesson
plan was to encourage people to turn away from
missing the mark (sinning)
with their lives and to believe
The Good News
that the One of the
challenges that any teacher can face is offering instruction to students
with information that they are not seeking.
In addition to this potential barrier, how does anyone entice
others to move beyond what they have taught themselves in order to
incorporate changes that would improve their attitudes? The name Bill
Gates is fairly well-known all over the world.
Gates is the creator of Microsoft, a major software company that
supplies applications that help average people to use their high-tech
devices. Along with his
becoming a multi-billionaire, he developed an arrogance that had few
boundaries. His early
reputation was notorious among Microsoft's employees.
While interviewing potential engineers, he would often say to his
Human Resources people, "Where did you find this guy? I am looking for
real talent to work here."
Interviews with Gates were emotionally brutal! Wealth and
power can greatly handicap people in the area of their people-skills.
When a person understands his identity as living among the Greek
gods on It took a
number of accomplished instructors to tutor Bill Gates in his development of qualities like humility,
compassion, kindness and good old- fashioned manners.
He did not communicate very well when he first appeared in front
of members of the United States Congress.
Gates had to be taught how to unlearn many of his attitudes, to change his choice of words, to soften the tone of his voice, and to recognize that lacking these skills really would never work for him. Gates, a
brilliant linear-thinker, had to incorporate new information that would
transform his personality and spirit.
Eventually, Gates got with
the program and developed into a person who became a pleasure to
meet. Today he is no longer dripping with self-importance. This is the
kind of experience that Jesus and his band of disciples faced when it
came to dealing with the attitudes and lifestyles of religious leaders
and the highly polished skills of the scribes and Pharisees.
The elite citizens in
Jesus' society understood their identities as being far removed from the
common, ignorant masses of people that surrounded them. Here in Many of us have
come into contact with people who are not interested in responses like
forgiveness or overlooking a person's toxic behavior. There is no way
that they want to turn the other cheek to such individuals. They feel
entitled to their feelings.
Jesus was correct, The Kingdom of God is near
for all people and has been near since the beginning of time, but it
remains a choice away from people being included.
If we speak to
people about their need to change, we can run the risk of causing them
to feel that we are disrespecting their feelings, of judging them and of
not understanding what they have been through. We can easily appear as
having a holier-than-thou
personality.
Jesus'
initial response to all people was to love and accept them just as he
found them. A remarkable
event took place in Washington, D.C. when we lived there.
On Capital Hill, there are walkways separating many town houses
that open up into beautifully decorated courtyards with high fences to
insure privacy. Frequently,
young government workers would get together in one of these courtyards
on a Friday or Saturday evening and have a wine and cheese party with
heavy hors d'oeuvres.
The Washington Post covered a
high drama that took place during one such gathering. There were about
eight to ten people gathered in one of these courtyards when it was
interrupted by a young man brandishing a handgun.
He demanded that they fill his bag with their wallets, their
rings, watches and all the normal
trinkets that such people want to collect as their prizes. One of the
women blurted out, "Please!
You know as well as we do that we are poorer than you are. Put your gun
away, sit down and have some wine and cheese with other poor people.
Judy, get this man a wine glass!
Would you like red or white?"
The gunman was
confused by their total lack of fear.
When he saw the wine, cheese, and plates covered with barbecued
wings, baby-back ribs, and large scallops surrounded by bacon, he could
not resist her invitation.
He sat down and spent about forty minutes with them, visiting, laughing,
eating and drinking. He had
become one of them. Before he left, he told them that they were the most
decent people he had ever met in his life.
He apologized for his intrusion. Often
what we say is not what matters. What matters is the spirit in which our
words are spoken, that wins the confidence of people.
If there is even a hint of judgment, the one offering advice
can receive a chilly response. Jesus loved
sinners and he demonstrated it in such a way that others could
experience it. The people
that Jesus had an allergy to
were the righteous-minded who knew they lived on
Mt. Olympus and advertised that
fact every day. Every year my
church in All our
building supplies were donated by John Hechinger who later sold his
stores to Home Depot. I had
access to farm equipment from the orchardists and farmers in my church. During the
process, I had attracted the attention of a college student who was
eager to tag along with me.
I drove an old dump truck, and she would ride along as I took truckloads
of debris to the Martinsburg dump. I believe her
parents were among those who never permitted her to make mud pies in the
backyard when she was young.
Later in life she did not want to get her hands dirty. Such an attitude
came from somewhere. Mid-week, she asked me if I was one of the farmers. When I told her that I was the Pastor of Arden United Methodist Church, she was shocked. She said, "Really? You are not like any pastor I have ever met. You are like a normal person." I laughed at her comments. I responded by saying, When we go to the
picnic tonight, see if you can identify the medical doctor, the attorney
and the architect that have joined our work crews. We are people just
like you who are working together putting new roofs and siding on
several houses for families that cannot afford to make these repairs by
themselves. It was
interesting to see how easy it is for people to make assumptions about
others because of how they are dressed or by their titles.
Many of us would rather be known by how quickly we help others to
feel comfortable with us. This was what Jesus used to gain
a foot-hold in people's lives.
He loved sinners. That
young woman taught me that the vital messages that we pastors deliver
often come from the spirit of our living rather than from the words we
express from our pulpits on Sunday mornings.
By the end of the week, she
showed me her hands and they were filthy dirty.
I gave her a thumbs-up approval. We have to realize that everyone from Bill Gates, to an intruder to a social gathering, to a young woman helping to repair homes, need to feel attractive and valued when they are with us. This in how Jesus taught. His love had no agenda connected with it. Brenda
MacDowell, who recently visited us for the second year in a row, had
some wonderful things to say about all of you.
It was her grandfather that built and installed the candle
holders in our sanctuary's windowsills.
She sent an email to me last week containing these words:
I consider myself a member of your church even though my physical
presence there is infrequent. You are my church and my church family,
and I cherish my time with you.
I
feel more at home and more loved with your wonderful, kind and generous
congregation than any other place on earth. I miss all of you so
very much. I am blessed indeed to feel a part of this center of God's
Love.
Please pass on my love
and best wishes to all my church family. We
never know how we influence others. When we extend our
loving energy, we can offer an opportunity for others to make changes in
themselves. These changes
are part of wonderful unintended
consequences that result from our willingness
to be an instrument of God's presence.
Our best sermons are often
those that remain unspoken. They are demonstrated by our living them.
With God as our partner, we do not have to worry about anything,
nor do we have to act in any particular way. All we have to do is show
up with love in our spirits and God will do the rest.
Love that
created substance when there was nothing in the universe can certainly
create changes in others because of the spirit-being that we have
become. However, we have to remember everyday who we are. CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER Merciful God, how grateful we are that you created us to serve.
Our lives thrive when we learn to let our inner world glow in the
dark.
Our confidence in you
is revealed when our fears no longer hold our attention.
Our courage increases when we no longer are shaken by the
unexpected.
We have learned
that approval from others no longer defines our identity. Teach us how
to remain sensitive to the movements of your spirit.
Help us to learn that extending love automatically is a
remarkable talent and guide.
We trust you to plant us in the gardens where we are most needed. Teach
us to remember that where we are is where we need to be.
Amen.
PASTORAL PRAYER
Loving God, Jesus came into our midst so
that we might learn how to become more loving, patient and peaceful men
and women. In spite of all the truth he taught, it was you, O God,
who created us with the power of making choices. Even though our
thoughts and actions frequently do not serve your will or even our own,
you gave us freewill as a gift. In the drama that life
represents, you have allowed distractions to intrude on the teachings of
your son. As many tantalizing alternatives surround us, it is we
who must choose between the pearl
of great price and the idol. It is we who must select between what
will enhance our skills of spirit and what is only an imitation that
pretends to offer us what we believe we lack.
Thank you, God, for being so confident in us. You appear to know that eventually we will find our way through the maze that life represents. We will return to you with a distilled wisdom that could not have been learned by any other means but our willingness to make better choices. We are frail. We make mistakes. We frequently forsake the substance for the shadow. Yet, O God, we understand that you would have it no other way. You want us to come to you because we love you and not because you will save us from ourselves. What a joy it is for us to know that your love is so enormous that it surrounds us and protects us even though many of us remain blind. With grateful hearts, we pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, the Christ, who taught us to say when we pray . . . |