“Give Up Everything! Really?”


Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – September 8, 2019

Centenary United Methodist Church

Psalm 139:1-6; Luke 14:25-33

 

    The language in this morning's Gospel lesson is strange. These words do not sound like the Jesus that we know.  We have never heard Jesus use the word hate to describe what he intended to bring to human relationships.  Never before have we heard that people have to give up everything in order to become one of his followers.

    In Matthew, this teaching appears in a form that is equally strange.  Jesus reportedly said, "Do not think that I have come to the earth to bring peace.  No, I have come to bring a sword."  (Matthew 10:34) We are not accustomed to Jesus using a weapon as a metaphor to describe his mission.

    Our understanding of Jesus' teaching is precisely the opposite of these alleged sayings.  A lesson that is more in line with our understanding of Jesus is found in a separate document that was not influenced by the other Gospel writers.  That document is the Gospel of John.  John's version of Jesus' teaching is far more compelling.  John wrote:

My peace I leave with you.  I do not give my peace in the same way that the world tries to give it. My peace will come to you from having trust and confidence in what I have taught you. Do not let your hearts be troubled. Do not become frightened by anything that you experience. (John 14:27)

    John's version of this identical lesson is still teaching division among people but not a separation that has such violent overtones.  Jesus was teaching people how to live in The Kingdom of God while still being alive in this world.  Jesus knew that a majority of people will remain anchored to the ever-changing values found in the material world.

    Jesus was teaching this same lesson when he was discussing this separation with Nicodemus who, at the time, was one of the brilliant teachers in Israel. He said:

I am telling you the truth; people cannot enter The Kingdom of God unless they learn to interpret their experiences through the eyes of love rather than by judging them using the prevailing values of the world.  You must give birth to your spirit before compassionate attitudes will work in your life. This orientation to life is so different that it is like being born a second time. (John 3:5)

    Another clue that the former Gospel lessons were misinterpreting Jesus' mission appeared when he allegedly taught, "If people refuse to carry their crosses and follow me, they cannot become my disciples."  (Luke 14:27) 

    Jesus would never have used the carrying of a Roman execution device as a metaphor for describing the faithfulness of his disciples.  This event in Jesus' own life had not yet occurred.  This teaching sounds more like what might have been taught by the early Church that had become keenly interested in keeping congregations faithful with their attendance and their financial giving. 

    Jesus was not in the habit of manipulating people by issuing threats and appeals to their fears. Love does not make demands of people.  Love simply allows others to use their free will in choosing whether to follow the way of Jesus or to follow the ways of the world.

    What we are currently experiencing in our lives are more and more people who have little or no understanding of their inner world of spirit.  When people are greeted with a frustrating circumstance, anger is often their immediate response.

    When we were children and were made to take a nap against our wills, some of us cried and fussed.  When we did not like our food, some of us may have pushed away our bowl so that it landed on the floor. When someone irritated us, we sometimes took action until a teacher said, "Use your words and not your hands."  A child's behavior and attitudes can be influenced by the wisdom of a teacher.  Jesus knew this and intended to follow through with his teaching ministry.

    Recently, a man in Texas was terminated from his employment, he purchased a gun privately, and began venting his anger by randomly shooting people. Such rage is like the response of a child, but such an act did not bring any solution to the loss of his job.  Instead, he took the lives of seven people and wounded twenty-one others before being stopped by the police.

    Politicians and other authorities in the U.S want stricter gun laws, greater background checks, outlaw having fire arms all together, or better ways of identifying mental illness before something happens.  But as we have learned in Bermuda, when people lose control of their emotions, they can hurt or kill others by using a knife.

    The solution-hunters are miles away in their understanding that the real culprit is spiritual bankruptcy.  When people have no training in how to cope with life's disappointments and losses, they respond with anger, one of their first developed responses from their infancy.

    If a person was never taught how to control their anger, there is no way to predict a person's irrational response once rage has filled the vacuum caused by a major upset.  When rage is their response of choice, people have driven their cars into a crowd of people killing and injuring a number of unsuspecting individuals who were unknown to the driver.  Such a driver did not use a gun.  He used his car.

    Our daughter recently told us of a death of a very attractive, outgoing, talented teenage girl who was living in Sue's development.  The cause of death was a suicide.  Again, no gun was used.  She hung herself because of mean-spirited words reported by her friends on Facebook.  In this case, the weapon of choice was widely circulating lies about a popular classmate.  This teenager had not been taught how to respond to rejection.

    Ever so slowly, newer generations have drifted away from sources that would have provided spiritual training.  Today, Christmas is about decorated trees, wreaths, gift-giving, and Black Friday sales. Fewer people are being reminded annually of Jesus' birth.  This baby grew up to give humanity a road map or a moral compass for how to live in this world.

Holy Week for many people is about chocolate bunnies, flying kites on Good Friday, Easter baskets, and wearing colorful, attractive clothing for the family's semi-annual trek to their church. How many people understand Jesus' resurrection as a prelude to what awaits them when they graduate from this life?

    It should not be surprising that the teachings of Jesus are seldom in our national conversations. Today, the politics of governments and calls for patriotism are in the spotlight.  Many people are so sensitized by the presence of other religions that the teachings of Jesus remain behind the walls of Christian churches that have been steadily losing members.  

    Few people recognize that Jesus' teachings are applicable to every living individual and not confined to Christianity.   This silence has created an opportunity for the ways of the world to appear far more compelling and controlling of our attitudes and decision-making.  After all, what else is there?  Newer generations have little exposure to even the basic skills of spirit. 

    Historically, this is the way the Jews understood their past.  The Old Testament is filled with the cycle of Jewish faithfulness and what happened when the Jews turned away from their faithfulness to the Laws of Moses.  It wasn't God who turned away. Is this what is happening in all Western cultures?  If we think we have problems, read a description of what must have been taking place in the Jewish culture in Leviticus 18:4-24.  

Jesus was not giving birth to another religion; he was teaching a more fulfilling way for every man, woman, and child to live in the world.  The sad reality is that very little works in the lives of today's newer generations who never ventured into the realm of spirit.  People living in our more modern time strive for what brings to them fleeting pleasures rather than pursuing what will produce lasting happiness.

    Seniors are left bewildered with their memories of another day when more people had some foundation that taught them character, how to nourish their spirits, or how to generate joy that comes from random acts of kindness and generosity.  When they were emotionally and spiritually down, they knew how to get up.  When they were greeted with a failure or a tragic loss, they made adjustments rather than responding to such events with frustration, anger, and depression.

     We are experiencing a period in history where consequences have become our teacher. One of the teachings of the Apostle Paul was that people will reap exactly what they sow. (2nd Corinthians 9:6) We will learn how to live in this world either through pain or through happiness and fulfillment.  This is our choice.

    Many people cope with life through medications whether they are from prescriptions or being used for recreational purposes. Most of us have not heard one word about why people are responding to life with such an insatiable appetite for these products. When the hunger and need for such artificial props for coping stop, so will the flow of drugs into our communities.  When markets dry up, so do the financial profits from the sale of drugs.  Who is awakening people to their poverty of spiritual skills?

    Yes, Jesus taught a life-style with values and character that guided people to a life of happiness and peace.  Not everyone is attracted to such a road map.  The world offers a promised land filled with illusionary guarantees. The quality of life depends on how individuals interpret their experiences.  Not everyone understands which choice will benefit them the most. (Matthew 7:14)

    We do not have to give up anything to experience the results of what Jesus taught.  Rather, when we embrace the timeless values that always work, we find why Jesus separated people. (Galatians 5:22) We need to become inspired by the results of our living while we trust our Creator to use us as the leaven for the rest of the loaf.

     

CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER

Ever present and faithful God, our lives are surrounded with such abundance and yet fears of not having enough often rob us of our spirit of generosity. There are times when distractions have chased smiles from our faces. We have experienced moments when the words of another caused our spirit of kindness to go into hiding. We have allowed hurtful experiences to define us.  Today we come seeking the healing that all humanity needs – freedom from such thoughts and responses.  Thank you for making each new day an opportunity to redefine who we want to be. Amen.

 

PASTORAL PRAYER

We come together this morning in humility and in gratitude for our lives, our families, our abilities to love, and to care for others. If life has taught us one irreversible truth, it is that being loved by you is beyond and above everything else that this world might give us. And when your son came to live among us, surrendering all that he knew in order to become one of us, we marvel at his courage in coming here to show us the way to navigate in this world.

We thank you for accepting us as we are. We have moods that challenge our ability to be kind and merciful. We have moments when we do not use good judgment. We have times of confusion when our decisions are more reactionary than being informed. We face moments when it is difficult to admit that we have been wrong.

 Yet, O God, you still love us. Your will for us to make our lives work often escapes us, but you patiently wait until we are prepared to take the risk required by love. You feed us with guidance when we are willing to accept our travels to new horizons where the shoreline is no longer visible.

Touch our hearts and minds, inspiring the awareness that trusting you completely with all that we are, lifts us above everything that would make us afraid. Help us to find the stillness and peace that allows us to know why it was that Jesus taught us to say when we pray......