“Smiling While Others Weep”


Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – December 15, 2019

Centenary United Methodist Church

    Isaiah 35:1-10; Matthew 11:7-11

 

    Our Gospel lesson this morning is about John the Baptist.  Three times Jesus asked his listeners: "What do you see when you go out into the wilderness?"  Finally, Jesus gave them the answer he was seeking when he asked his third question. "Did you go into the desert to see a prophet?"  Jesus continued:

That is exactly what you went into the desert to see, but John was far more than just another prophet.  He is a messenger sent by God to prepare the way for the coming of another who will introduce to the world The Kingdom of God.

I want to tell you a truth about John.  He is greater than anyone who has ever lived. However, the person who is least in The Kingdom of God is greater than John. (Matthew 11:9f)

    John was angerly denouncing the sins of the people who had come to listen to his preaching.  He said, "You snakes!!  Who told you that you could escape the punishment that God is about to send?" (Luke 3:11) His notion of salvation was for people to change the way they ordered their lives or suffer the eternal consequences.

    John was preaching fear as a motivation to change their attitudes.  Jesus was teaching that loving energy has the power to conquer fear.  Jesus would never teach people to love others from a fear of what will happen to them if they cannot bring themselves to master such a response.

    People who are living in The Kingdom of God develop loving responses that fill them with joy and happiness most of the time.  They only have their inner lights flicker when matters found in the material world are taken seriously.  Such activities can be judged harshly when people invite fear to enter their minds.  When people refuse to take the material world seriously, they can sing while others weep.

    Many years ago, in my second church, we celebrated Halloween in a most unusual way.  Someone had access to large cardboard shipping boxes.  These boxes were brought to our fellowship hall and taped together to make tunnels for the children to crawl through.  The children all came in costumes.  A number of their parents secretly came also dressed in costumes.  The parents arrived as vampires, zombies, and other frightening creatures, many wearing clinging, skintight masks that were hideous looking. 

    As the children were crawling through these tunnels to get their treats of candy, they were greeted at the end by their crazy looking parents. The children were instantly traumatized.  The children believed what their senses were telling them.  Many children burst into tears and were screaming for their parents whom they did not recognize because of their disguises. 

    No one expected this response from their children.   The strong emotional responses only subsided when their parents removed their masks and costumes.  Needless to say, this was the last time we staged such a drama for our children.  The activity was meant to be fun, but as it turned out, no child was saying, "Do it again, Daddy!  Do it again!" 

    All the participants were given a clear illustration of the response of people who understood what was happening and the response of those who did not know that their senses were deceiving them by something that was not real.

    This is true in the daily experiences of most people.  They look at what is happening in the world and say, "The Second Coming cannot come soon enough!"  The reality is that we are experiencing today what history tells us has always been happening in every generation since the beginning of recorded history.  Some people smile because of their understanding while others weep because of what their senses are telling them.

    Most of you know that my brother's wife was diagnosed with stage-four pancreatic cancer several years ago.  She knew that she did not have much time to live.  With the time that she had left, she prepared her family and her Baptist congregation for what appeared to be the inevitable.  Her orientation toward life was clearly about living in the world no one can see.  She often stated rather emphatically:

Look!  We all know that we die.  However, we don't know when or how. What we do know is that God's arms are wide open to receive us.  Please no mourning and no shedding of tears.  We were born and we die.  It is that simple.  Accept all of our experiences with gratitude."

    When she died on Palm Sunday last year, there was a true celebration where people were smiling, joyous, and excited that Mary Ann was finally out of the woods.  Her pain and suffering were gone and she had reached her goal of being reunited with the Master.

    Everyone in her church family and in her immediate family knew positively what had just happened.  My brother never shed a tear.  He knew that all was well with his wife, Mary Ann.  This is truly an illustration of how some people can smile with joy while others weep.  What had just happened was that Mary Ann had taken off her mask and costume and left them here for burial.

    People who only pay lip service to what Jesus taught can be looking for their faith to be rewarded by a new surgical procedure, a new medication, or a miraculous spontaneous healing.  If a healing does come, it will often cause people to exclaim, "Prayer really works; this healing was a gift from God, or I guess God spared the life of my wife because God has something more for her to do." 

    Often people fail to remember that God only intervened in Jesus' life when John the Baptist baptized him.  Toward the end of Jesus' life, God stood by and watched as Jesus was falsely accused of crimes he never committed and murdered by people in a most grotesque manner.

    Why did God do this?  Why did God choose this response and then present to humanity the gift of an empty tomb? The answer is that God knew what was happening even though no one else did.  Jesus did not die; he merely changed his form.

    The Apostle Paul thought he understood what happened at Jesus' crucifixion. His imagination came up with the narrative that Jesus was the Sacrificial Lamb that was killed to atone for the sins of the world.  Did God really need a human sacrifice?  Think of it - - An entire theology has grown from Paul's idea.

    We become so attached to the things of this world that often we find it difficult to realize that life is temporary, that what we are experiencing does not exist when we die, and that life actually does have cyclical themes that were present during every generation.  We have learned that the world is perfect for what it was designed to do.

    Think about this: the only things that upset us have to do with activities that are occurring in the external world. When fear enters our minds and emotions, they can easily compromise the quality of the spirit by which we live.

    John the Baptist was preaching fear that if people did not turn from their wicked ways, they would be lost forever.  Jesus was teaching people how to have a good time regardless of what was happening around them in the world. His followers were invited to become a light in darkness. (John 5:14f)

    By living in The Kingdom of God, their seeds have fallen in what Jesus characterized as fertile soil.  When our life-experiences prune us, we are still living in fertile soil because we know what is happening. Pruning enables us to produce even more fruit. (John 15:1f) Once people have learned to live with this understanding, they can sing, smile, and hold on to the joy of living for the rest of their lives.

    Just like during that frightful Halloween experience of children years ago, once Jesus took off his mask and his costume, he revealed the results of dying only in the material world. Jesus revealed himself as an infinite spirit-being that had been clothed in a cocoon-like vehicle like the rest of us.  We were never taught how to use our powers as Jesus did during his 40 days in the wilderness.

    What Jesus did, that often separates his responses from our own, was that he did not allow the fear to enter his mind that his life was too short or that his influence would die with him on a cross. Those thoughts never occurred to him. He just lived what he understood and demonstrated that knowledge on the world's stage.

    When we understand that God's winds will carry our seeds to wherever they need to be, our fears leave us.  God does not give the right to come home only to the elite or the elect. Jesus taught that he came to give spiritual freedom to everyone from being confined by the tendrils of this world.  (Luke 4:18f)

    However, most people live as though this world is the only one there is. That choice is fine but people have to put up with the consequences that remain in the hands of happenstance.  Such people can easily weep during life's reversals.   Jesus came to offer humanity an additional world to consider.  This resulting flow of energy is why we have lighted the third candle of Joy on our Advent wreath.  

    Living with joy and happiness is not the result of our choosing to detach ourselves from this world with all its fine trophies and sensuous pleasures.  Not at all.  We choose to live in this world by bringing our loving energy flow into every aspect of our lives.

    Living in The Kingdom of God gives people a strength and power that others will not have.  John the Baptist was preparing the way for another who would introduce this reality of spirit to the world's people.  We are never without the capability of making the choice to live in God's Kingdom now.

    This is the way life's true values come to those who understand what is happening to them. They intuitively understand that there are two worlds available to everyone, not just one.  Knowing this will give us peace, the Advent theme for next week.

     

CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER

Loving God, thank you for creating us with the ability to experience joy when we express generosity from our hearts, minds, and spirits.  We have learned that optimism and hope spread more joy than gloomy reports about our future.  We have learned that faith is contagious when we stand strong amidst other people who have lost their courage.  Help us to let go of qualities that may prevent us from being instruments through which your music plays. At the beginning and the ending of each day, may you find us filled with gratitude and joy because of how conscious we are of your presence every moment.  Amen.

                                 

PASTORAL PRAYER                              

Loving God, our days continue to pass so rapidly and we find ourselves in our place of worship once again as we continue our journey through Advent.  We have learned that just as a candle can illuminate a large room, so the life of Jesus has ignited a burning desire in the hearts of billions of people over thousands of years to make his message of loving our neighbors visible all over the world.  Inspire us to remember that in every circumstance we have within us the power not only to survive but also to thrive.

From you we have learned that not all strength appears as we choose to define it.  We have learned that not all love comes in a form that we recognize.  We have learned that some of our greatest sorrows need not block your spirit from lighting our path. We have learned that sometimes we need to accept life as it comes.  In our poverty of understanding, we do not know where our life-experiences may be leading us.

 

We thank you that while our minds and hearts are still maturing, you still send guidance.  Even though our lives are not lived in harmony with you, you still send music to which we can dance. During this Season of Joy, enable us to discover how to become better instruments for communicating compassion.   Help each of us to become the message we want others to receive. We pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, the Christ, who taught us to say when we pray . . .