“Why Our Words Matter”


Meditation Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – February 3, 2019

Centenary United Methodist Church

Jeremiah 1:4-10; Luke 2:25-33

 

    This morning we are going to consider the importance of what we say to each other.  Whether or not we believe it, all of us play a serious role in helping one another to refine our identities.  Our words matter.  But, even more importantly, the spirit that causes those words to be spoken has an even greater impact on people.

    Can you imagine yourself engaged in the process of deciding what you wanted to do with your life as a former prince in Egypt when you heard these words?  "I am sending you to Pharaoh so that you can lead my people out of Egypt."  Moses had to be scared to death.  He was repelled by what he heard. (Exodus 3:10f)

    In our first lesson this morning, Jeremiah heard these words that he recorded in the book that bears his name.  "I chose you before I gave you life.  Before your mother bore you, I selected you to be a prophet to all the nations in the world." (Jeremiah 1:5) How would any of us process hearing such words?

    Our second lesson describes an event that took place when Jesus' parents took him to the Temple in Jerusalem where they dedicated their infant son to God forty days after his birth. A man was there whose name was Simeon.  He took the child into his arms and said, "Your son has been chosen by God to be a light that will reveal God's will to all the people in the world and bring glory to the people of Israel."  (Luke 2:32f) Simeon gave Mary more thoughts to ponder as she and Joseph reared Jesus.

    Think of Jesus, at the age of thirty, listening to his cousin John preaching along the banks of the Jordan River.  Jesus felt the urge to become baptized.  As he surfaced in the water following his baptism, Jesus heard words that shook him to his core, "You are my son." (Luke 3:21f)

    Jesus was so disturbed after hearing these words that he went into the wilderness for forty days of fasting. The result of his wilderness experience was so profound that he left his profession and his family to become an itinerate teacher.

    When we think of Saul of Tarsus, who had become a vigilante literally hunting and arresting Jesus' followers, he was also shaken to the core by words that he heard while on his way to Damascus.  The words were so beyond anything that he had encountered in his life that they literally transformed his life.  (Acts 9:3f)

    All of these teachers of humanity had been transformed by words that they felt had come from God. Later in his ministry, Jesus brought a different meaning to the source of these experiences.  When people were ready to receive, they became the new vehicles for communicating what had transformed them.  "Jesus said, 'Peace be with you.  As the Father sent me, so now I send you.'  Then he breathed on them and said, 'Receive the Holy Spirit.'" (John 20:21-22)

    What was happening here?  What does it mean to receive the Holy Spirit? A lot of speculation developed among Christians of later years about what happens when people receive the Holy Spirit.  Thinking about the Holy Spirit grew largely from the Pentecost experience.   Definitions were given that went beyond anything that Jesus was teaching when he was with his disciples. 

    Today, we are learning more about the power of words.  Social media has greatly added to our understanding.  As with any other creations that come from people for the good of everyone, what has been created can also be used for reckless and callous purposes. 

    For instance, young teenagers can commit suicide by reading words that appear on Facebook that belittle them, make fun of them, and undermine the fragile, budding self-esteem of some of their classmates.  Lately, there has been a considerable public outcry about bullying coming from fellow-students.  The need for acceptance and popularity at this young age creates tremendous competition among peers that can become fierce.

    However, words can also provide acceptance, encouragement and support through expressions of kindness, compassion, mercy, and forgiveness.  Such words become instruments of transformation.  What makes these words Holy to some people does not come from a special power or authority.  What makes them holy is that such words are communicating loving energy, an energy that we have made sacred.   Thus, people can be a conduit for the Holy Spirit to come into the lives of others.

    Think about the thoughts of Mary and Joseph after hearing the words, "Your son has been chosen by God to be a light that will reveal God's will to all the people in the world and bring glory to the people of Israel."  The likelihood is great that they would become instant cheerleaders all during their son's early life preparing him for whatever role awaits in his future.

    All of us need to pause before we speak and think, "How will someone use what I am about to tell them?"   The words we speak also reveal the nature and quality of our inner world.  What image are we creating that we want to leave with others when we are finished talking to them?  

     When we decide to become a creative presence in our world, we have the ability to reflect the spirit of the Being that created the world.  We need to understand that all of us have been wired to do this.  Often, we do not feel like using those circuits and an opportunity to make a difference is missed.  The world will become a much brighter place when we allow our spirits to show up expressing loving energy in all circumstances during the course of our lives.  God will do the rest.  Amen.

     

CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER

There are no words, O God, that can describe our peace when we experience your presence. Even during life's more fragile moments, our awareness of you restores our confidence. We want to hold such moments of wholeness forever but we cannot. The frustrations of life, of work, and of our families can easily affect our attitudes.  Our priorities are always changing.  Help us to convert our distractions and disappointments into opportunities to represent your presence. Nurture our spirits today with the resolve to find you everywhere and in everyone. Amen.

     

THE PASTORAL PRAYER

With humble and grateful hearts, O God, we have come into your presence to celebrate life and the vast number of possibilities you have given to us to reach for the stars. We have learned that we can make such a reach through our vocational pursuits, our choices, and our willingness to take risks.

Thank you for our confidence to step into the uncertainties that many unknowns represent, knowing that we no longer need to fear the "what-ifs" that our imaginations can easily create. Thank you for teaching us how to release to you the outcome of our next surgical procedure, our business decisions, the passing of those who were once an intimate part of our world, and the choices we make that create life's next adventure.

Help us to think of our futures in terms of how best to serve, how best to make a positive difference, and how best to redefine what it means to be inspired by loving energy, so that our lives represent your presence in what we do.  Please help us to develop the vision to play big, to wear more smiles, to bring more laughter, and to spread our support to more people with qualities that will brighten the corner of the world where we live.

Thank you, God, for enabling us to sing our song. Together, with others like us, we can produce harmony that becomes an invitation for others to sing their songs. We pray these thoughts of thanksgiving through the spirit of Jesus, the Christ, who taught us to say when we pray . . .

*Meditation dedicated to Piper Marion Mackay's family on the occasion of the nine-month old's baptism.