“Allowing Our Lives To Unfold”


     Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – August 16, 2020

     Centenary United Methodist Church

    Psalm 133; Genesis 45:1-15

 

    Our Scripture lesson this morning contains a rare look at what happened to a young man who lived a life of being bullied, tormented, sold as a slave, accused of a crime that he did not commit, and put into a prison. What thought did he cling to that prevented him from being destroyed by the onslaught of rejection and injustice?

    The Old Testament records that Joseph was a teenager that had a very active imagination.  He had fantasies of becoming someone with a great deal of power.  He began telling his dreams to his twelve step-brothers.  (Genesis 37:6f) They were extremely jealous of him because they knew that their father, Jacob, loved him more than all the others. Jacob had a robe made of many colors that he gave to Joseph. None of the other brothers got such a gift.

    Jacob sensed that his son's story-telling was creating tension in the family so he scolded Joseph for sharing his fantasies. (Genesis 37:10f).  Shortly thereafter, his brothers hatched a plot to get rid of Joseph.  After a group discussion, the brothers decided to sell him to a passing caravan that was headed for Egypt.   

    His brothers dipped his robe in the blood of a goat, showed it to Jacob, and told him that Joseph must have been torn to pieces by a wild animal. They followed through on their plot and Joseph was gone from their lives.  Jacob recognized the robe as belonging to Joseph.  He believed their story and grieved for a long time. (Genesis 37:31).

    It is remarkable that anyone could have withstood such abuse.  He faced rejection from everyone.  Drawing on his spiritual heritage, Joseph trusted God to do the navigating for him. Joseph took his hands off the steering wheel of his life and brought his best into every setting where he found himself.  

    The young man was bought by Potiphar, who was the captain of the Royal Guard that surrounded and protected Pharaoh. Potiphar was so impressed with this young man's intelligence that he gave him authority over everything in his household.

    This handsome boy caught the eye of Potiphar's wife who attempted to seduce him. He declined her attempts and in her resentment of his rejection, she reported to her husband that Joseph had entered her chambers and assaulted her.  Potiphar was so furious that he had Joseph put into prison.  (Genesis 39:17f)

    Our lesson this morning opens by describing the moment when Joseph revealed his identity to his brothers.  The entire region was in the midst of a prolonged drought.  Jacob sent his sons to Egypt to secure food for his extended family.   

    The setting of this revelation was most dramatic.  Standing before his brothers, Joseph was dressed in the attire of royalty surrounded by servants. All of the political symbols communicated power and wealth.  Here were shepherds standing in front of a man who represented the most powerful nation in the world.  He burst into tears as he told them that he was their brother, Joseph.  The brothers were stunned, terrified, and immobilized by fear. (Genesis 45:2f) Joseph removed his Egyptian head-dress and showed them that he was, indeed, their brother.

    What was it that preserved Joseph's identity in the midst of rejection at every stage of his life?  The crown jewel that sustained him during his sojourn is our text this morning.  Joseph told his brothers:

Do not be upset or blame yourselves because of what you did to me.  It was really God who was fashioning my life in such a way that I was sent ahead of you. I am now able to save my family from starvation. God has made me Pharaoh's highest official.  I am now the ruler of Egypt. (Genesis 45:5-8)

    Joseph's story could easily save the lives of countless people today.  He was living every day what Jesus would teach Nicodemus fifteen centuries later that attitude is what allows people to live in the Kingdom of God.  Joseph was already there.  His story in many ways is superior to the teachings of Christianity. 

    Jesus is reported to have saved the lives of believers by dying on the cross.

    For centuries, Christians have been taught that God's grace forgives us of our sinful nature and welcomes us into God's Kingdom. In the Joseph story, this young man who was sold into slavery was doing that same thing as God by forgiving his brothers of everything that they had done and welcoming them to live in the most fertile land that Egypt had to offer. (Genesis 45:17-20) 

    This is the story of God's grace that Jesus revealed in the parable of the Prodigal Son. (Luke 15:11-24)  

    There is so much life-saving education in the Joseph story that teaches that a successful life was actually experienced by a slave fifteen hundred years before Jesus was born.  It happened because Joseph kept telling himself, "I have no idea where my life of rejection is taking me, but I know who is in charge of my journey."

    There is no telling how many people have centered their lives on responding to rejection by depression, who have committed suicide because friends made fun of them on Facebook, or who believed that they were useless because they perceived that their mom and dad had more love for the other siblings.  Joseph was a slave who never took that label as something demeaning or that his station-in-life represented a lower class of people.

    In every setting Joseph became the best slave, the best administrator of Potiphar's affairs, the best prisoner that elevated him to be the administrator of the prison, and the most insightful interpreter of people's dreams.  His remarkable attitudes propelled him to be at the right place at the right time to save thousands of lives. The Joseph story may have inspired Jesus to choose servitude over all other attitudes for living. (Luke 22:27) When we have servitude connected with living The Golden Rule, that is all we need for God to find us a willing tool for creation.

    This kind of life does not just happen because we have had courses that deal with low self-esteem, with asserting ourselves, with standing up for our rights, or with protesting our variety of social justice for everyone.  Such a life happens when we refuse to judge anything as unjust and by allowing our lives to unfold without our interfering in the process.  We know that we are completely blind to our eventual destiny. 

    Accurate self-evaluation is absolutely impossible because we have no idea who we are influencing or what creation intends to do with our humble efforts.   We learn to live one day at a time sowing our seeds absolutely mindless of where they might land.  This is how Joseph lived. Joseph never saw ahead of time how God might be using him in some task.  He brought his best to every experience without knowing the meaning of any of it.

    There is a song that explains this process entitled Anyway?  Here are the lyrics:                

You can spend your whole life building'
Somethin' from nothin'
One storm can come and blow it away
Build it anyway

You can chase a dream
That seems so out of reach
And you know it might never come your way
Dream it anyway

God is great, but sometimes life ain't good
When I pray it doesn't always turn out like I think it should
But do it anyway
I do it anyway

The World's gone crazy and it's hard to believe
That tomorrow will be better than today
Believe it anyway

 You can love someone with all your heart
For all the right reasons
And in a moment, they can choose to walk away
love 'em anyway

You can pour your soul out singing
A song you believe in
And tomorrow they'll forget you ever sang
Sing it anyway
Yes, sing it anyway

 

    Once we take ourselves off the stage of self-importance and do just simple things because that is what we have dedicated ourselves to do, our circumstances really won't matter.  Look at what God did for the world with a carpenter and twelve men who were living in one of the most obscure and unimportant parts of the world. 

    Think of the scrolls that have been preserved that were written by people who never gave a thought about whether or not they would be preserved or that anyone else would find them important enough to read. And yet, we had one of them read for us this morning thousands of years later because someone wrote their remembrances anyway.

    I am always reminded of Vincent Van Gogh who created 900 paintings and 1,100 drawings and sketches.  He only sold one of them during his lifetime.  He wanted something from this life that he never received.  His spirit was singing with a paint brush and he never recognized that his creations were enough. He grew despondent and chose to end his life. 

    Joseph found a better way, one that all of us can follow.  He lived fully and left all the fine print of success up to God.  The personalities that become historical figures that offer guidance for the rest of us are seldom recognized while they are alive.  Always remember that God is the Creator.  All that we have to do is to sing our songs, sow our seeds, love with abandon, and God will fill in the blanks.

     

CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER

Loving and ever-present God, all of us need to stand before the mirror Jesus holds in front of us to review the quality of our lives.  We thank you that his revelations stand in our midst like a sentinel that guides our thinking, emotions, and spirit.  We thank you that his truth does not change because of what others believe. When we set aside our loving responses because we feel hurt or betrayed, our light is not as bright.  The unhappiness, pain, and disappointment that we experience, O God, are like voices that are calling us back to becoming the person you created us to be.  Inspire us to remember that we are always a work in progress.   Amen.

     

PASTORAL PRAYER

Thank you, God, for the fragile moments in life that repeatedly teach us that we may never know why our lives take all the twists and turns that they do. All we know is that our trust in you guides us to step out in faith toward our next adventure. Thank you for the challenges that make us stretch beyond our known capabilities.  Thank you for the times when all of our symbols of security dissolve around us, and once again, our thoughts must find peace with you as the unexpected aspects of our lives unfold.   

Why is it that we so often quickly respond with frustration when your will may be fashioning a destiny other than the one that we are seeking?  Why is it that we find detours so unattractive?  Why is it that so often we conclude that something is a waste of our time?   

As we reflect on our lives, who could have known ahead of time the jobs that came our way, the friends with whom we have had a relationship, and the experiences that have taught us that we have more blessings than defeats.  As we anticipate our tomorrows, help each of us to stand forth with faith and trust, knowing that our future will be as fascinating as our past.  Inspire us to greet each new day with unwavering confidence by accepting every moment as our opportunity to mirror your likeness.  We pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, the Christ, who taught us to say when we pray . . .