“When Our Beliefs Are Confirmed”


Sermon Delivered By Rev. Dick Stetler – January 3, 2021

Centenary United Methodist Church

1ST Samuel 3:1-10; Luke 2:41-52

Epiphany

 

    The liturgical use of the word Epiphany marks the first Sunday in the New Year and it is always referring to the arrival of the three kings. However, this morning I am leaving that theme and migrating toward what happens when we have an epiphany. This occurs when a person suddenly has an insight that is so powerful that it can change how he or she orders their lives.   These experiences occur quite frequently at the present time. 

    We can hardly imagine the joy and the sense of accomplishment that was experienced last year when teams of researchers had an epiphany on what would unmask COVID-19, a virus that no one had ever encountered.  As a result, a number of vaccines are on their way to the nations of the world.

    Epiphanies are happening because people are following the trail of clues and beliefs that will lead to major discoveries. This was true for Elon Musk and his creation of an electric car. All the new products that have occurred in recent years, from the cell phone to ZOOM, have been stimulated from our curiosity and our desire to find solutions that will enhance our knowledge and the quality of our lives.

    Nothing appears to stop humanity's desire to unlock the mysteries of something that they believe is present but they are still searching for the solution. Our spiritual lives are no exception. What happens to us when we have an epiphany, an experience that is ours alone yet it changes our lives completely?

    A woman in my past was almost inconsolable when her mother died.  The two were inseparable.  Betty Ann’s husband was away on business many weekends.  His absence provided her with the opportunity to pal around with her mother.  They both enjoyed numerous adventures together.

    One week, with absolutely no warning, her mother had a massive cerebral hemorrhage and never regained consciousness.   Since her mother was in her mid-60's and was as energetic as her 43-year-old daughter, the possibility of her dying never entered either of their minds.

    The preparation for her mother's memorial service was difficult because Betty Ann was angry with God.  She felt robbed of her best friend.  Her entire future appeared to be shattered because she could not see anything hopeful or positive about life now that her mother was gone.  Her husband was fearful that his wife might do something foolish.  She had spoken several times of wanting to join her mother.  He asked me to do something to help Betty Ann.  

    I began to see Betty Ann once a week but all I could do was remain a listening ear as she worked through her period of grieving.  On her last visit with me, she told me that her grieving had suddenly ended.  She had an epiphany, a powerful break-through.  She had help from an unexpected source. She had a visit from her deceased mother. Betty Ann wanted to tell me about those moments.   

    Her mother awakened her from sleep one night by shaking her feet. Her husband was in Singapore at the time. She was seated at the edge of her bed radiating enough light to fill the room. The two had a running conversation.  Her mother assured her that she was fine.  She told Betty Ann that there was no pain involved during the process of her death.  She described her transition as going from one room into another. Her mother told her about her last minutes of life and then talked about her current experience. Let me quote Betty Ann's own words.  Her mother said,

We can look the same as you remember us, however, there is no need to do that unless the occasion is like this one. I am here to tell you that all is well with me and to please get rid of your thoughts of wanting to join me. Death is no different from being born. Where I am, God is still a concept. Here, God remains an invisible loving presence just like God was for us. I have not encountered Jesus, Buddha, or Confucius.  There isn't the need to do so. We are all the same but we are also different in a way that is beyond description.

    Betty Ann asked, "Why don't other deceased people come back and talk to their families as you are doing now?  That would make going on with life much easier for those of us left behind."  Her mother said:

You will have all your questions answered when you leave your present life. I came back to tell you not to hold on to me. Doing so is making your life miserable.  What is important is that you have confidence that you will always be surrounded by love even when your fears are telling you that certain events are your darkest moments.  They are not once you learn their meaning. Trust life.  Bring to each moment the love you have and you will be guided by an energy that you cannot see or understand.  I will leave you now.  Please trust me. Death is a process that everyone will eventually experience from stillborn babies to those who have reached the century mark.  Bye for now.  I love you.

    Betty Ann told me that their communication was telepathic. Betty Ann spoke with her voice but her mother's words came to her mind not her ears. Everyone who has discussed such encounters with me has said the same thing.  I told her to write down everything she could remember while all the details are still fresh in her memory. She had already done that the following morning and later sent me a copy from which I quoted.  

    From that moment on, Betty Ann’s life was never the same.  She had experienced an epiphany, a remarkable insight, that was somewhat similar to the resurrection experiences of the disciples.  

    What we have in today's lessons is an epiphany by the child Samuel whose life was completely changed by his experience. He became a priest, prophet, and a Judge of Israel. We also have the Gospel story of Jesus at the age of 12.  He was a mature spirit that was confident and fearless as he engaged the Temple Elite in a question-and-answer period.   

    Something happened to Jesus that caused him to become curious about the world of spirit.  The source of Jesus' spiritual strength remains a mystery, but we know that he had an epiphany about his own identity. It could have been his parents telling him what Simeon said about him at his ceremony of purification 40 days after his birth. It could have come from words spoken by the three Persian astrologists who told Mary and Joseph who Jesus was destined to become. Throughout Jesus' childhood, he had been fed thoughts of the role he would play in the world.

    Jesus had become so intrigued by matters of spirit that his preoccupation with spirit had distracted him to a point that he neglected to inform his parents where he was.  After a day's journey, his parents learned that Jesus was not among the other children. Mary and Joseph turned back to Jerusalem to find him. 

    On the third day of their searching, they found him in the Temple engaged in a question-and-answer period with the elite staff of the Temple. The priests and teachers were dealing with a very precocious mind of this 12-year-old that was beyond anyone they had ever encountered. No doubt, they were highly complementary of their son.

    Jesus continued to suspect that there was a world that no one can see. We have to assume that Jesus never stopped dwelling on the possibility that God's plan for humanity was different from being obedient to a set of Laws.  He spent a great deal of time refining that understanding until he had an epiphany at his baptism.  (Matthew 3:17)

    In the New Year we need to remember that people who seek will find and for the people who knock, the door will be opened. Once that door opens by some insight into a world that no one can see, a person's appetite to connect more dots is accelerated.

    All of us need more training on how we perceive, how we interpret our experiences, how we detach from and understand painful episodes, and how we learn to stand on higher ground during the parade of life's never-ending drama of changes. However, more central to the quality of our lives is how we learn to forgive the behavior and attitudes of others.  Why be judgmental when others will never be on the same level of spiritual maturity as anyone else?  This is why each of us is one-of-a-kind.

    Not everyone is hungry to find the answers that feed their spirits.  They settle for the pleasantries found in the world.  As long as people reverence the things of this world, the answers embedded in the world of spirit will elude them. 

    Countless people sacrifice having real power for the temporary illusions that come from the fleeting pleasures that are here today and gone tomorrow. The world has always been filled with people like this. And, why not? For most people, this is the only experience they have. 

    Betty Ann had an experience that pierced the bubble that this world had provided and entered a reality that no one else could see. Once an epiphany occurs for a people, their appetite for the things of this world is no longer as satisfying. The experiences of Jesus after his death is what energized the disciples to carry on his ministry.

    Saul of Tarsus had everything that money and pedigree could bring to him. Then Saul had an epiphany and that experience turned his world upside down. (Acts 9:3) After his epiphany, nothing found in this world was worth pursuing. Saul's life was dedicated and focused on matters of spirit.  As a result of his experience, he became the Apostle Paul whose letters make up much of the New Testament. 

    All of us, humble or famous, can influence the material world when our spirits awaken. We can understand life more clearly as we gather more strength to live by trust.  Our lives will change when our spiritual beliefs become the reality that we experience. Happy New Year!

 

CONGREGATIONAL PRAYER

Merciful God, as we approach the dawning of the New Year, guide us to become a more effective influence on the lives of others.  Jesus warned us not to look back, but we do.  The vision of our past is much clearer than the present and our future.  We are painfully aware of the promises we made and did not keep, of relationships that we were going to mend, of habits we had hoped to change, and of attitudes we were going to discard.  A part of us longs for living faithfully a life that has learned how to make your presence visible.  Yet another part of us knows we are living exactly how we want to live in the world.  Guide us to unite our hearts, minds, and spirits so that we allow others to see your presence in the people we have become.  Amen.

 

PASTORAL PRAYER

Loving and merciful God, as we enter the New Year, the entire world community is circling its wagons once again in an effort to save lives with vaccines for COVID-19.  Surely this is who we are as a world of diverse people.  Let the bell of freedom ring during one of humanity's finest hours.  It is ironic that the world's people are rejoicing and spending money to get their citizens vaccinated while others use their financial assets and their words to gain control over the way people live.  

Sometimes great disasters do shake us from our political agendas, our posturing, and our finger pointing.  Something within the aftermath of a disaster reminds us
 how precious and fragile the gift of life is and how meaningful life can become when the Golden Rule is practiced each day. May the silver lining to this cloud be the discovery of our need for each other and our willingness to share with those whose losses appear insurmountable.  God bless our world as its people embark on a mission of healing. 

As we continue our sojourn into the New Year, may our lives reflect the beauty of the season we have just experienced.  May the warmth of giving, the joy of extending ourselves, and the peace from bringing love to others, remain with us long after the glitter from the window dressing has faded.  These are the qualities of life that remain timeless.  We pray these thoughts through the spirit of Jesus, the Christ, who taught us to say when we pray . . .